"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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An observation about one-itis posts

Demon

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Anyone notice that posts about one-itis infections are always long-winded and boring? I wonder if this is a product of the afflicted feeling that they need to explain everything to clarify their story. These posts tend to include some hard facts, followed by an extensive assortment of arguments against possible assumptions that respondents may present, intertwined with soft facts and other conjecture.

This might be a result of the afflicted simply overthinking matters, trying to guess every potential consequence of each action they could take to achieve their goals. If this is the case, the answer is simple: stop thinking; start doing. Life's simpler that way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bobbles

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When you have one-itis you become completely consumed and it totally dominates your thoughts. So naturally if you tell people about it you want to get all your thoughts down on paper. This is just as much to clarify you own thoughts as to tell other people. Those people would be far better writing a post somewhere else, editing it, and then writing the most important thoughts into the post.
 

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Oneitis posts are exactly what you said they are and the reason being is the poster of these oneitis post is using this site as both a vent for their feelings(which is good) and also wanting advice, motivation or kick in the a$$.

I have posted oneitis posts and may so do in the future until I master my inner game. I think there is nothing wrong people posting oneitis posts as we should try to help them out as oneitis is one big fagg0tt which can claw you down.
 

mrRuckus

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Demon said:
Anyone notice that posts about one-itis infections are always long-winded and boring?
Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize all my one-itis posts were supposed to be rife with funny jokes and entertaining stories. My apologies.

If you want a joke, let me point you to the Wing Man forum. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=25

Anyone notice that threads complaining about other threads are nearly always made from a soap box and tend to be full of intellectual gobbly gook full of big words meant to demonstrate intellectuality but communicate little real substance?




stop thinking; start doing. Life's simpler that way.
And much shorter when you get AIDS from fvcking that Korean street wh0re without a condom because you're so busy doing like a monkey instead of thinking like a human.
 
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