“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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An Irritating Day in the life of a Don-To-Be.

TheCleanPleb

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Today started out like a day of days. I got up, feeling pumped for absolutely no reason,crushed the morning workout and took a glorious shower after that. Afterwards I had my post workout lunch, and went on my way to work. When I arrived at work, I greeted all my coworkers with a warm smile, and welcoming touch. I felt as if confidence was oozing from my every pore, which compelled me to look for some new plates. I initially had some success pulled a few numbers, set up a few dates and generally felt good about today's "catch". But this is when everything took a turn for the worst....

I made plans to have a quick lunch with a girl tomorrow but unfortunately I typed her number in my phone incorrectly. I know what you scraggly old DJs are thinking but no, she didn't give me the wrong number. This isn't a big deal, just a minor irritation.

I got 2 numbers and the boyfriends walked up BOTH times, causing me to instantly cut the kino and caused me to leave a bad impression. Another girl was engaged(happens all the time NBD). When you're in the zone, pulling numbers left and right, this kinda kills your vibe, am I right? VERY minor irritations but at this point my massive stockpile of confidence was draining a bit.

So at this point, I'm still feeling good about today's haul but I still had a girl to call later about setting up a date for next week. I called her at about 5ish and she didn't answer, no big deal. She returned my call with a text stating that she was "in a club meeting" and that she "has no life blah blah blah". I then tell her to meet me at Panera's at 2pm Wednesday, she said "I have class :(" then I said 4pm then she said "I have Lab lol". At this point I can't tell if she's playing games, so I just said "Lol call when available, we'll talk about it". Sure enough no call and now I'm playing in her court. I feel like she's being flaky, and I don't like flakes unless they're frosted so I'll probably next her. Again, I'm not an irritable guy, but this obviously chipped away at the stockpile a bit as well.

All the while, still in good spirits I run into THAT girl. You know, that one girl from the past that knows you like the back of her hand and always has some stupid sh!t to say. She tells me to "go get myself checked because I'm sticking my **** in *****s" and gave me some crazy statistic about HPV. This instantly killed what was left of "my vibe" and got inside, around and under my skin.

Feeling alright, I went home, chilled, watched the movie "Kids", looked at cars and ate a great dinner. I decided I had enough of females for the day, so I hit up a close friend of mine. He came by, chilled, and brought up his opinion of my previous relationship. Normally, I can handle criticism but I didn't expect him to say "dude why'd you cheat on one of your old girlfriends, it shows a serious lack of character". Just like that, what was left of my once over flowing stockpile of confidence ejected itself from my body and dove head first into a water-less pool of irritation. I reacted as any man should, and accepted his opinion but, not without voicing my own.

Sorry about all the b!tching, I just felt like I needed to verbalize lol. Today, my whole vibe went from a 12/10 to a 2/10 all in the period of 12 short hours. What can I do to make tomorrow twice as good? What have I done wrong and how can I continue to grow, not only as a DJ but as a person in general? Does anyone recall having a day like this? Bless me with your knowledge SoSuave.
 

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Don't sweat it. Keep in mind it's a numbers game and as long as you remember that you will succeed in the long run.
 

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Pelican said:
Don't sweat it. Keep in mind it's a numbers game and as long as you remember that you will succeed in the long run.
Thanks Pelican!

IndeedSir said:
Study Buddhism. I say it a lot for good reason.
It seems like one of the more...sane religions. I was also thinking of taking yoga to keep me grounded, any experience with this?
 
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