"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you ever met a girl that, while online/texting she is very outgoing and personable.... but when you get them in person or on the phone they don't talk AT ALL. It was tripping me out all night.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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All the time... not an interesting or rare girl really. It's why I won't start something on the net anymore. The girls tend to have social problems and huge self-esteem issues.
 
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Dude seriously. I took her to a friends party and she just sat on the sofa on her sidekick and didnt say a thing to anyone. No social skills at all but she was very sweet online. Why can't they all be perfect like me?
 
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Dude seriously. I took her to a friends party and she just sat on the sofa on her sidekick and didnt say a thing to anyone. No social skills at all but she was very sweet online. Why can't they all be perfect like me?
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You know what you need to do with her. She's like the opposite of an attention *****... a social hermit, and if a girl is too far at either end of the spectrum, I don't consider her to be high quality.

I also try to avoid the net when it comes to getting to know girls now... your experience is a good reason, but most of a woman's communication is non-verbal... and there can be a lot of miscommunication with IM or email. I've had fights with my friends over the stupidest bull**** because they misread or misunderstood what I wrote.
 
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