"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Avsguy01

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I dated this one girl(A) a year ago, and at that time she was a pretty awesome girl. Unfortunatley she was going through alot of problems and had just recently broken up with her LTR of 3 years. Now mind you that this was back in my AFC days so i really didnt see it coming, but she totally cut me off to be back with her bf of 3 years(plus her sister died in a car accident that was blamed on her father for letting her drive alone, 16 years old.) So, obviously there was way too much for her and she cut me off.
Now to the present, she called me up about 3-4weeks ago on the phone for the first time in almost a year. She gave me that crap how she didnt know what she had lost until she did lose it. Also, her bf of 3 years ended up screwing her over, stealing her money. So now this girl A has been trying to get me to go out with her. Up to this point i only saw her twice in person and talked on the phone twice. Her cutting me off is definately whats holding me back from her.
Anyway, last night i was working on my car and she pulls up in my driveway. She also has a hb in the car with her. Girl (B). Anyway we all talk for a while and i pretty much give them both the mysterious, ****y, funny attitude. Obviously they are both into me. Girl A asks me what i was doing on Saturday and i give her the "i dont know". Girl B said she'll call me....lol Well they end up leaving both very interested, both waving bye and beeping the horn.
So, i continue working on my car again and i get a phone call. Its Girl B calling from Girl A's cell phone. They are both together. Girl B bluntly comes out and tells me she wants to **** me! I was like damn. This girl is hot and at my age i pretty much will take what i can get. So im like okay.... she says shell call me. Girl A gets back on the phone when girl B leaves her house. Girl A tells me that Girl B is engaged since she knows that Girl B wants to **** me. So for me that is a Red flag to Girl B. Girl A wants to obviously get up with me and wants to do something Saturday. I told her i would call her Saturday morning and well go to the beach or something.
So now my question is since these two girls know that im interested in both and they know that both of them are interested in me in one form or another, how should i play this sticky situation. Girl B is engaged and thats a red flag but damn if she wants it, i think her being as hot as she is i wouldnt mind giving it to her, but then theres girl A that might not take too kind to that. What the hell do you all think about this sticky situation?
 

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bone chic B. what can chic A say? make her feel like she better PRAY you'd give her the time of day after the stunt she pulled...

not that it was so bad considering, but you gotta be the prize

if she really wants you, you can get away with **** for a minute.
 

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Yeah thats just how im going to have to play it. Im the prize, one girl wants me for a minute the other wants me for more....I see what your saying though, if she wants me that one minute shouldnt matter.
 

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Damn right. Do Girl B regardless of her (alleged) status, then consider your options.

What Girl A thinks is not even worth discussing, she lost all rights to that a long time ago.

Osc.
 
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