"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An Interesting Look At The "Female Psychosis"

Maximus Rex

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I'm an acolyte of Tom Leykis. Along with this site, the great film documentary "American Pimp," Louis and Copeland's "How To Succed With Women," and experience I was able to 1) Figure out chicks and their motivations and why they are they way they are and 2) As Tom states in the opening monologue to Thursday's Leykis 101 segment get "more pun for less money." It's already been done, but here's the link to the "Tenets of Leykis 101." http://leykisonline.com/leykis/viewtopic.php?t=15 101 basically just piggybacks and reinforces the "DJ philosophy."

Anyway, there's this one chick on the Leykis message board who 'obviously has a problem with 101. I asked her to state SPECIFICALLY what problems she had with 101. Not only does she never state her problems with 101, she VALIDATES the "40 Dollar Date Rule." Which is never spend more than $40 on a date. It's a LONG ASS READ (8 pages) but the thread provides insight to what I call the "female pyschosis." It clearly illustrated the f*cked things that goes on in the female mind. Here's the link:http://leykisonline.com/leykis/viewtopic.php?t=568

I've also found out how esmasculated and effiminzed most men are. One day I was listening to Leykis and he said something very telling. Tom said "that the more you have to compromise with an people, the more likely you shouldn't be with them." I agreed. So I posted a thread on a cigar board entitled "No Compromise," which simply stated that if a chick couldn't accept the fact that I smoked cigars, then I wouldn't be with her. Needless to say I got killed for it. After I posted 101 on the cigar site I was accused of being a "troll," and I got banned from the site. Which was "f*cked up." Again, everybody on the site resorted to personal attacks and only ONE PERSON out of the 6 pages of responses even attempted to answer my question when I asked SPECIFICALLY what problem they had with 101. Unfortunately I respond to guy who questioned 101 because I was banned from the site. If you guys want to read the those threads here are the links: http://www.clubstogie.com/vb/showthread.php?t=21019 and http://www.clubstogie.com/vb/showthread.php?t=1 These are LONG ASS THREADS read them when time allows.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MetalFortress

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Surprised this hasn't had a reply. What you got killed for was stating that you'd refuse to smoke outside just because your gf/wife didn't like the smell in the house, not that you wouldn't keep a chick who had a problem with your cigar smoking. Even I would be mad if someone smoked a cigar in my house, and I LOVE cigars. I'd rather smoke it outside, not only to take in the outside atmosphere, but because I don't want the smell lingering for weeks, no matter how good it smells.
 

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MetalFortress, I agree with your points.

Men should do whatever they damn plz. Some chick doesn't like it? To hell with her. I don't care if I minimze my odds of getting laid for months just because everyone I meet wants me to compromise my interests and dignity and I refuse.

I enjoy what I do, and I am entitled to it (EX: I smoke unflitered pure tobacco cigarettes, much to everyone's dismay, and I get so much flak for it. "What the hell, where's the filter man? Ur killing yourself...Ur doing this to show off...switch to fliters...". There came a time where i said "Screw you all, ur all a$$holes, go fvck yourselves and leave me alone". That did the trick, and they stopped pestering me.)

Nice post MetaForteress, I can relate.
 
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