"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An IMPORTANT post that we all need to discuss--STORIES

1069freefm

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Hi everyone, first off I want to say that I am new to the website and have been browsing around and am really impressed with all you guys, Great job all! Anyway I made this post for something critical that we all NEED.

We all need to have STORIES that DHV(higher value) and that are fairly interesting that will spark womens interest. As we all know its critical to get some progress with her (# close etc). So everyone lets inform each other of some great story plots (real or BS) that can get the job done...

(EX: Mid Pick up if the opportunity presents itself--) Ya Im actually real tired, the other night I was at this crazy party, and ofcourse there are cute girls all around, and then as you would suspect.......(yadadada)

So everyone, any stories worth noting?? Thanks a million!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smooth guy

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Personally I think it's harder to have conversations or interesting stories to say to girls when you don't have a good social life with friends. I mean, you will get stuck in the same boring convo if you're doing nothing all day.

Girl: Hey whats up
Me: Eh nothing just chilling. How are you?
Girl: I'm fine thanks how are you?
Me: Fine thanks
(pause and awkward silence)

Of course it won't be THAT bad :D but similar scenarios will keep happening if nothings going on in your life. Thats why I think first you must focus on your social life and then start improving your game with the other gender. Getting a social life will automatically fix a lot of your problems with girls.

Notice how the social and popular guys rarely have any problems with getting girls.
 

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I think he's going with the "fake it till you make it" thing. I have a couple that you can use for now and u can switch it out for something else when u get some real cool DHV shyt.

Ya Im actually real tired, the other night I was at this crazy party, and ofcourse there are cute girls all around, and then as you would suspect......
I saw my jealous ex-gf...we talked about how we messed up and stuff. When I first saw her the other night I remembered how gorgeous she was... when we first started out we had so much fun, we would have tickle fights and stuff an when she got mad at me I would smack her with a pillow and initiate a pillow fight and it would all be good...but she was way too jealous, she always got mad when I chilled with any girl but her, and eventually... I just broke it off because I couldn't take it.
something like that should do the job.
it says that you're a very laid back chill person, lots of hot girls like u, you chill with girls, and you will next a girl if she acts out of line.
 
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