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What's your opinion on incels?

Jacob Blank's answer: At its core, the incel phenomenon stems from the fact that a certain percentage of men are just not attractive to women. In ancient history, only about 40% of men and 80% of women reproduced. Men can produce large amounts of sperm, while women are reproductively limited. Thi...

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Here’s the cold, hard truth: all societies which have reached an advanced level of development have done something to prevent involuntary celibacy in men. Whether through culture, religion or law, they have promoted monogamy and the family unit ...

The West enforced monogamy and stable marriages until very recently. Now, we are gradually reverting to humanity’s natural mating patterns.

The blame lies squarely with the cultural shifts that began in the 1960’s. Mark my words, the incel epidemic is a ticking time bomb. Trying to teach men that they aren’t entitled to sex is going to solve nothing, and if you think it will do any good, you have no understanding of male psychology. It will only worsen the problem by creating resentment. We are going to see more men refusing to contribute to society, more anger, more violence, and in the long run, modern society is not going to be able to sustain itself if we can’t bring back monogamy and stable family units.

It seems like we have two options: force women to marry repulsive men, or force men to be incel. A zero-sum game. In both scenarios, somebody loses big time.

It’s not going to be easy, and there will be a great deal of resistance, but if we can heal the problems in society that are making people so disgusted by the idea of partnering up with regular members of the opposite sex, then we can solve the incel problem in a way that will benefit everyone.

Emotional stability don’t mean **** when you’re an evolutionary failure. Taking care of would-be evolutionary failures is what society is. If you don’t construct society around them, you don’t have a society, at least not one that you’d want to live in (think loincloths and bashing people in the head with clubs). Society takes care of people who wouldn’t cut it in the wild, and those people take care of society. It’s a give-and-take relationship (ie. each side is entitled to something from the other, which is why societies exist).