"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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An experience of a Brown guy in the US, don't get why people say it is tough.

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**** yeah, man. If you dont want to share in the lemon and cupcakes, THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE?

I never meant to blow my horn, or sound conceited. ****ing ****... WHY ARE WE STILL ARGUING.

Brown people something.
I'm here because I was interested in reading this thread since it has more than 3 pages since I last checked.

This thread is hardly about what OP intended it to be. It seems like you have an obsessed fetish with men's look from what I've observed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think part of OPs success might have to do with the fact he is at a leading college. Here the women are more intelligent on average, and things like race are likely to be less of a consideration in their choice of men.

Also as another poster has pointed out, the fact you were born and raised in the US also makes a big difference. After all, you get no points for a strong Indian accent.
 

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Hey sweetcakes,

Seems like you have a fascination with white people. When I lived in SE Wisconsin, all I dated were blonde girls. No problems at all. The girls up there are also far more aggressive and openly promiscous, but also more opinionated and rude. Kind of like a fake Hollywood. Bars and clubs aplenty; big social scene and a lot more noise. Whole different environment and culture than down here. Not a strong emphasis on religion or family. Far more independent and an active, fast-paced lifestyle. Lots of parties, and an over-indulgence in alcohol. All those ****ers do is drink.

But chicks were definitely into brown guys - especially mexicans. But them *****es up there are also crazy. A lot of random ****ing. Very easy to get laid.

But how you present yourself is different. They're more loud and social, and love players and bad boys. Agression is definitely in; pleasantry is on the wayside. None of the southern hospitality / charm ****. Whatever keeps the drama going.

One thing to note: its mostly all white people up there, and theyre not very welcoming to foreigners. So, expect to hate them. Down here its a whole variety of everything when it comes to people.

Love always,

:moon:
 

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I think part of OPs success might have to do with the fact he is at a leading college. Here the women are more intelligent on average, and things like race are likely to be less of a consideration in their choice of men.

Also as another poster has pointed out, the fact you were born and raised in the US also makes a big difference. After all, you get no points for a strong Indian accent.
ya but I just don't get why so many successful Indian dudes (money wise) CANNOT land a beautiful girl of another race, they always end up with ugly looking Indian girls, like the Indian girls are rarely bollywood quality

I have seen some broke Indian guys having success as compared to the rich surgeons.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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An Indian man is having sex with a white woman? Quick someone phone every single media outlet in the World, that is something which has never happened before. It's a first ever.
 

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lets see

1. majority race in the US
2. most attractive women in the US are White
3. highly sought after by guys of all races
4. highly promoted by media

I don't care what anyone says, but White girls are the best in my experience, I am not even touching other races since I have managed to do good with White girls.

They may not be special to you, especially if you are a White guy, but to me they are the best women there is overall. European or American. Latinas are a close second though.

You have not lived until you have had your **** inside of a pretty blonde.
 

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JackRobin said:
lets see

1. majority race in the US
2. most attractive women in the US are White
3. highly sought after by guys of all races
4. highly promoted by media

I don't care what anyone says, but White girls are the best in my experience, I am not even touching other races since I have managed to do good with White girls.

They may not be special to you, especially if you are a White guy, but to me they are the best women there is overall. European or American. Latinas are a close second though.

You have not lived until you have had your **** inside of a pretty blonde.
Gotta hand it to you GSPSheilds. You know how to get reactions out of this site.

Perhaps you'll start a new thread on how Asian/Indian men "size up" to men of other races and how size difference relates to attracting white women? LMAO. Trollololol
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Naughty Ninja said:
Gotta hand it to you GSPSheilds. You know how to get reactions out of this site.

Perhaps you'll start a new thread on how Asian/Indian men "size up" to men of other races and how size difference relates to attracting white women? LMAO. Trollololol
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Man... Dont EVEN tell me I got all worked up, defensive, and troll-played by that mother****er. It is odd that this guy just joined, after all the other race threads that got deleted under various "new" aliases. And he was always talking about hot guys, and how he wanted his **** in their mouth. Acting like a female to attract men... General faggotry behavior all over the place.

Hmmmm...... Not liking this.

:cuss: :box: :cuss:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man... Dont EVEN tell me I got all worked up, defensive, and troll-played by that mother****er. It is odd that this guy just joined, after all the other race threads that got deleted under various "new" aliases. And he was always talking about hot guys, and how he wanted his **** in their mouth. Acting like a female to attract men... General faggotry behavior all over the place.

Hmmmm...... Not liking this.

:cuss: :box: :cuss:

You got "picked up" online by a troll Floydb25. I'm going to have to lump you in with chicks on POF if this keeps up.

Next GSP AKA JackRobin will ask for a nude pic of you to see how you "measure up" for "white chicks".
 

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You got "picked up" online by a troll Floydb25. I'm going to have to lump you in with chicks on POF if this keeps up.

Next GSP AKA JackRobin will ask for a nude pic of you to see how you "measure up" for "white chicks".
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha..... FML. :cheer:

Gotta rep him for pulling it off so well. Mother****er...
 
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Black guy checking in and I can also confirm that I haven't had any major problems with attracting women of other races. Ever since I went to college, I can honestly say that I've been with more white women than anything else.

Any non-white guy complaining about their race holding them back is CLEARLY doing it wrong.
 

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Black guy checking in and I can also confirm that I haven't had any major problems with attracting women of other races. Ever since I went to college, I can honestly say that I've been with more white women than anything else.

Any non-white guy complaining about their race holding them back is CLEARLY doing it wrong.
I can agree with you but many can make the argument and say Black men have been fetishized so women will sleep you because of the size rumor.

To be fair, there aren't many good stereotypes about Asian and Indian men out there but I am shocked, more Indian men should talk about the Kama Sutra.
 

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just did a search on GSP shields, wanna say that it ain't me, period

his Europe thread seemed disturbing though but I am not going around saying Asian men can't get laid
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow, really enjoyed reading this thread,and agreed to most of it, so decided to open up an account. Been lurking on this website for about a year now and thought this would be the perfect time to open up and share my experience, so here it goes.

I'm also a brown skinned dude who lives away from my native country, my family and i moved to canada in 2006 and eversince then we have been living here.

I started here from middle school and right now am in 2nd year at the university of alberta. I honestly agree to a whole lot to what JackRobin said in his first post. But times have changed for me during my transition from grade school to university. First of all let me clear out that if i you dont see my skin color you wouldn't be able to differentiate me from a canadian white guy (accent, clothing, hairstyle etc). When I was in grade school pretty much all the girls i dated were white, and it was easier to get them. BUT now that i am university for the last 2 years, its A LOT harder to get laid, be it with a white girl or black (leaving brown out because of the following). I tried to figure out what might have been the problem and why this is happening.

The problem is my university (just like most unis i guess) is full of FOB brown people. no disrespect to any of those people, but the abundance of these brown people have made me "one of them". I am no longer " that only brown guy in the class" know what i mean? and as far as i know being a part of scarcity is always an asset.

My point for this post is, i always considered it an advantage for being brown(other than inside my uni), because i was the guy who was "different".
And to go back to the topic of the thread, i think guys should embrace their skin color and go with it, it has actually worked to an advantage for me than the other. sorry for the extra long post, just my thoughts, cheers. :up:
 

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thanks for your relevant post ks6

but have you had some success at your university though it has been harder for you?

I mean would you say you have to overcome some barriers and then can get a beautiful White girl for example or would you say it is next to impossible because of the FOBs?
 

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thanks for your relevant post ks6

but have you had some success at your university though it has been harder for you?

I mean would you say you have to overcome some barriers and then can get a beautiful White girl for example or would you say it is next to impossible because of the FOBs?
yea, nowadays ive been, but its almost close to impossible though(right now my count is 2 white and 1 black at uni). many reasons for the low success rate, some major ones are

-the program im in; electrical engineering has a guy to girl ratio of 300:10 in most classes and out of those 10 only about 2 are white and if i get lucky 1 of them are attractive.
-and most of the guys in engineering are fob.

so yea overall i have figured it out recently, took me about a year,all i have to be is just a standout guy and differentiate myself from the FOBs, not that i wasnt before, but just emphasize it a little more. right now im kicking it with a black chick, but i also got this other white girl in future plans(winter semester ;) )

did you not face this problem at your uni?
 

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well can't you just go out and associate with other majors at your university?

I am a chemistry major, we have a lot of females but most girls I have had ONS with were sociology and psychology majors. You don't have to always associate with people in your major, I wonder who told you that. Maybe college is different in Canada.

For me, my biggest advantage is being in a state that barely has many Indians in it but that is changing fast. We are getting some FOBs indeed. See em everyday now in some places man.

Khakis, collared shirts, glasses, mustaches, and tennis shoes. The guys have some preppy White kids laughing at them, least did I forget, these guys are fat too due to their poor diet.
 

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well can't you just go out and associate with other majors at your university?
Thats exactly what ive doing, none of the girls ive been with are from engineering, and no, its not like "you cant mix with other majors" in canada LOL. Nursing faculty has been the sea full of big fish for me and my friends.

JackRobin said:
Khakis, collared shirts, glasses, mustaches, and tennis shoes. The guys have some preppy White kids laughing at them, least did I forget, these guys are fat too due to their poor diet.
LMAO, just described my classmates, its mind boggling how little attention these guys pay to themselves other than studying.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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