"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An example of a 17 year old guy that USED what he learned at SoSuave

Marvin Gaye

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I discovered Sosuave.net a few months after my 17th birthday; before that I had read The Game and was hooked, but finding Sosuave was milestones greater

What Sosuave has taught me in order to grow!!

1) Lead, or be lead. This is something I have struggled with most of my life, and now I notice my voicing my beliefs like I've never done before

2) KNOW what you want, no one else can decide for you

3) I’ve learned that women’s actions tell you much more than anything else. Words are useless.

4) Whether this means having badass hobbies, or gaming multiple biddies, Spin Plates!! haha

5) Draw boundaries for yourself!. Don't let any woman you want disrespect you. Don’t let anyone disrespect you for that matter, but never allow a woman to do so simply because you desire her.

6) You come first, don’t give up your life or desires for anyone else.
Was hard for me to cut off some friends who weren't adding to my life in any way.

7) Lose the insecurity and jealousy. Life's too short to be pissed off all the time ("American History X" also taught me this)!!

8) Life is about failures and learning from them, and it's about making different choices.

9) Building on that, value yourself enough to always chase knowledge--The thirst for life and new experiences should always be there!

10) There are always other woman to game.

11) Patience and calm is the virtue of a DJ; you can spot a weak male who constantly loses his cool and belittles other in order to make himself feel better

12) Think for yourself (like The Beatle's song :rockon: ), always questions things in order to get the full picture. When I first came to this I used to think it was the sh!t; but there is some information on here that is probably too bitter, too narrow-minded and it isn't healthy to accept everything as gospel

13) Above all, the best way to utilize all this knowledge, is to get out there, and USE IT!!!

Negatives I've discovered

1) Men live off logic while women live off feelings.

2) Any woman has the capability of cheating is something "better comes along"

3) In all honesty...I hardly respect/trust any woman now. This is mostly the case because I live in the West; I see their actions everywhere I look though, almost like a conspiracy. It's a burden to be so enlightened :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Espi said:
You're gettin' it, MG...good summation...
Thanks. I've always wondered about the origin of your name. Its a really mesmerizing title!
 
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