"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An example of a 17 year old guy that USED what he learned at SoSuave

Marvin Gaye

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I discovered Sosuave.net a few months after my 17th birthday; before that I had read The Game and was hooked, but finding Sosuave was milestones greater

What Sosuave has taught me in order to grow!!

1) Lead, or be lead. This is something I have struggled with most of my life, and now I notice my voicing my beliefs like I've never done before

2) KNOW what you want, no one else can decide for you

3) I’ve learned that women’s actions tell you much more than anything else. Words are useless.

4) Whether this means having badass hobbies, or gaming multiple biddies, Spin Plates!! haha

5) Draw boundaries for yourself!. Don't let any woman you want disrespect you. Don’t let anyone disrespect you for that matter, but never allow a woman to do so simply because you desire her.

6) You come first, don’t give up your life or desires for anyone else.
Was hard for me to cut off some friends who weren't adding to my life in any way.

7) Lose the insecurity and jealousy. Life's too short to be pissed off all the time ("American History X" also taught me this)!!

8) Life is about failures and learning from them, and it's about making different choices.

9) Building on that, value yourself enough to always chase knowledge--The thirst for life and new experiences should always be there!

10) There are always other woman to game.

11) Patience and calm is the virtue of a DJ; you can spot a weak male who constantly loses his cool and belittles other in order to make himself feel better

12) Think for yourself (like The Beatle's song :rockon: ), always questions things in order to get the full picture. When I first came to this I used to think it was the sh!t; but there is some information on here that is probably too bitter, too narrow-minded and it isn't healthy to accept everything as gospel

13) Above all, the best way to utilize all this knowledge, is to get out there, and USE IT!!!

Negatives I've discovered

1) Men live off logic while women live off feelings.

2) Any woman has the capability of cheating is something "better comes along"

3) In all honesty...I hardly respect/trust any woman now. This is mostly the case because I live in the West; I see their actions everywhere I look though, almost like a conspiracy. It's a burden to be so enlightened :rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marvin Gaye

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Espi said:
You're gettin' it, MG...good summation...
Thanks. I've always wondered about the origin of your name. Its a really mesmerizing title!
 
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