"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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An emotional short film on hypergamy

Berom

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I thought a few of you would enjoy watching this. It's about 12 minutes long.

I tried to not over analyze this film mainly because I love how simplistic it is in regards to the lack of dialogue. But I realized it's healthy to make assumptions about why the characters did what they did. We should ask questions like, who's at fault here - the man or the woman?

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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El Payaso

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A bit overdramatic but I would never take a person's life if I found my woman cheating.
 

Reykhel

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The danger of what happens when you become dependent on another person for your
happiness and become attached to that dependency.
 

CuddleJunkie

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One of the things I'm really grateful at life is this:
When I got cheated on, she was not in my town.
I can say that today I would not be a free man otherwise. I have to work on dettachment like really hard lol.
 
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