An Attention Ho maybe or maybe not

[strollsrus]

So I am dealing with a woman whom I thought might be an attention WhUre but after reading posts and the bible I am not sure anymore. These are some of things she does.

1. I asked her to bring me breakfast in the morning and she did.
2. Lets me Kino her.
3. gave me her number without me asking for it.
4. I would catch her watching me when I was not looking.
5. would do things for me.
6. I know this is silly but I assume this would fall under mirroring I will call people and places weird names and I overheard her using those same names. also I always drink apple juice at work and I noticed she start drinking apple juice.

Is she a Attention Whrre or not? I have 2 other things I don't understand so instead of making 2 other threads I will combine them here. These things all have to do with this same woman.

I will be in my office working hard for my money NOT and this girl will find some reason to come over and see me. She will ask me questions about how to do this or that and I realized hey she knows how to do those things. Now also from reading here I would take that as her being shy but she is not shy at all. A couple times I would go outside to smoke which I have to pass her office to go outside and next thing I know she shows up outside this only happened a couple times though.

Once some of us was ordering food to our office and I asked this girl if she wanted anything and she said no I don't have any money on me. So I felt bad and being Un dj like I ordered her some food also. The food gets there and she finds out I got her some and she calls me up and tells me to come get it she is not going to eat it. I go over and tell her she is going to eat it. and I am trying to recover from my un dj like behavior I told her Don't take this as a sign for me being soft I just didn't want to hear you complain your hungry it will not happen again. She has this look in her eyes her pupils was huge and it looked like she had tears in her eyes. SO the question is what kind of response is that?

Now as to being an attention ho if she is an attention ho I don't know where I went wrong. One thing I know I didn't to is tell her how hot she is etc. I feel funny dealing with her and thinking to myself "what does the dj bible say I should do" lol.

 

[Seraph]

I think she is just interested in you and trying to get your attention. IMO the food thing was a **** test. It was good try when you went up and told her to eat the food but I'm not sure if it worked or not.

 

[strollsrus]

What Kind of test?????

 

[Seraph]

sh!t test-When a chick does or says something which is meant to judge the reaction or response from a male, whether the test is done consciously or unconsciously. The specific words of the response are less meaningful than the method and mode (attitude) of the response.

Alot of guys think that women have such tests to see if you are the kind of guy they want to sleep with.I'm sure someone can give a much more accurate description, I'm eating right now and not totally into the thinking mood.

 

[Seraph]

The best way to pass sh!t tests is to act like they're nothing; brush them off. If she said she wasn't going to eat it, you should have taken the food and mentioned how some other chick will have a good time with it- or better yet, give some other chick the food in her general area. That way she will see that you won't mess around with that type of bs and plenty of other women are available for your food. Yes I know, stupid of me to say that I wasn't in the thinking mood and then post this nugget of info but it was a qucik thought that popped into my head.

 

[strollsrus]

Oh I never thought of that as a shiat test. I so whats the verdict is she an attention ho? What was the deal with her giving me that look?

 

[Howie Farkes]

so whats the verdict is she an attention ho?

Ask yourself - "Is she acting the same way with all the other guys in the office as she does with you?" Answer that and you'll probably know.

 

[strollsrus]

Originally posted by Howie Farkes
Ask yourself - "Is she acting the same way with all the other guys in the office as she does with you?" Answer that and you'll probably know.

Nope she only acts that way to me. I just never had that eye thing happen before or most of the other things she did.

 

[Befuddled]

hmmm you strike me as either one of the following:
1. Terrified of relationships and coming up with excuses to stay away from them before they get going. (kinda like myself)
2. a little thick. from your descriptions, sounds like girl jumped up and bit you i n the ass, and you still havent noticed.

your situation could be one of the following:
1. Shes a colleague, a friend.....maybe just a friend.
2. She does like you and would like to start something, unfortunately you pushing food down her throat wasnt the response she was hoping for.

Either way, you seem , to me, like a person who cant see the obvious. I have read your post, and nothing in it suggests ANYTHING to do with attention *hores.

Here's a rule of thumb..... if shes been spending time with you, it's not for attention, it's for your company. It works both ways, unless one of you descide to live in a box alone.

 

[BGMan]

All girls act like attention wh0res, even with guys they really like. The key is to figure out when it's genuine.

In your case, I'd bet that she's interested in you. Take her out somewhere and have fun.

BGMan

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

if a girl is mimicking/mirroring your sayings and behavior she is obviously thinking about u - i dont know wgere u r getting the attention ho business from - unless u see her trying to play others - anyways the look on her face we vant help u with - there r dozens of expressions - u have to see it to judge - hel y not ask her? if u like her make your move in a romantic gesture if doesnt accept then move on

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

if a girl is mimicking/mirroring your sayings and behavior she is obviously thinking about u - i dont know where u r getting the attention ho business from - unless u see her trying to play others - anyways the look on her face we cant help u with - there r dozens of expressions - u have to see it to judge - hell y not ask her? if u like her make your move in a romantic gesture if doesnt accept then move on - quit analyzing so much!

 

[strollsrus]

i dont know where u r getting the attention ho business from

I have read your post, and nothing in it suggests ANYTHING to do with attention *hores.

Well she has boyfriend whom has to support her. I tried to kiss her and she said I told you not here, I have alot to lose. I then told her I don't want you to do anything that you will have to live the rest of your life with. "meaning cheating". So I try again another time and she rejects me and says she had more time to think about it and doesn't want to do anything that she may regret.

unless u see her trying to play others

No she only acted that way to me.

if shes been spending time with you, it's not for attention, it's for your company. It works both ways, unless one of you descide to live in a box alone.

Good Point I guess if she wanted attention when she came to see me she would do more then just talk to me normaly.

anyways the look on her face we vant help u with - there r dozens of expressions - u have to see it to judge -

Well I took the look as she wanted to eat me instead of the food. She did some HEAVY flirting that day after that look.

 

[CLOONEY]

You tried to bust on her twice and she rejected you? She may not be an attention *****, but confused. She is not sure wether she wants to be with her boyfriend since she sorta likes you. I would withdraw, you cant afford to keep showing interest, or try and bust on her azz once more, seriously if you do, she will know she has yoiu in the bag and she will loose interest.

Take it easy and play it cool!

 

[itstough]

Where the heII do you get she is an Attention *****e from? I think that is way way over used on here.

 

[strollsrus]

She may not be an attention *****, but confused.

Where the heII do you get she is an Attention *****e from?

So what she is not an attention Ho??

 

[strollsrus]

She may not be an attention *****, but confused

Where the heII do you get she is an Attention *****e from?

So what she is not an attention Ho??

 

[usdaprime]

I am not seeing the attention WH0re thing. why don't you tell us where you come up with this.

 

[penkitten]

ask her out already

 

[strollsrus]

Anybody???