"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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An Asian guy's trip to the Upper Midwest USA, you guys buying it?

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So this Asian guy who has worked on his game, has approached women for quite a while, dresses stylish, is Americanized, and claims to have game decided to take a trip to one of the Whitest states in America, Minnesota. There he claimed he had it much easier than anywhere else and women were getting with him because he is Asian, he claims that it hasn't happened to him in the South or in California. Now the guy isn't your typical Asian, he is 6 ft tall and claims to dress GQ but here is his two part story. Apparently later he is going to talk about his trip to North Dakota.

Part 1

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2012/...f-an-asian-guy-through-the-upper-midwest-usa/

Part 2

http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2012/...an-guys-trip-to-the-upper-midwest-usa-part-2/
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't see why people are so ignorant about the Midwest. I lived in Minneapolis for a few years, and it's anything but a 'backwards, bigoted' place. As for being the whitest state in America, I grew up in an upper Midwestern city, and hardly had any white friends until I was nearly 20.

AND, there are plenty of fine girls. I've lived in the Midwest and on the east coast, and all I can say is that there is higher variance among Midwestern girls, but the average is pretty much the same (read: you find some of the hottest girls there).

Weather aside, the Midwest is awesome.
 

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well, do you believe that an Asian guy or Indian guy can kill it there in terms of attracting women?

The Asian guy in the post apparently got a lot of eyes from the women there.
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been to the midwest a couple of times and number one thing I noticed is that the women were less attractive there. I guess it's because of the weather there. I've seen Asians pull hot girls. My short asian friend has a 8/10 blonde girlfriend.
 

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The only reason its easier up there is because of the society and culture. I moved down here with some Marine friends... We were all from the MW. One was married and loyal, traditional... Whatever. The other (single guy) couldnt get **** for women, but every time he went back to visit to the MW, he got laid very easily, and very quickly.

Thats because theyre more independent, single-minded, promiscuous, and aggressive. All you have to do is look good, dress sharp, and look like a BB or player. *****es are all over that **** up there. The social scene is very active, and people dont hold back - they go for, say, and do whatever they want. If women like you - they will make it known, and not hold back on their sexual desires. Sex isnt forbidden or inappropriate up there. You dont have to date or get married. They arent wishy washy. They'll flirt, touch, use sexual inneundos, talk about and suggest sex, and all that ****. There isnt much you have to do. Just get the ball rolling, and sex is pretty much on the table.

People also dont stick to themselves, or in small groups, or with their families and relatives. They also arent shy, overly respectful, and other things you find down here. They dont really give a **** about class, character, etc - only looks, status, sex appeal, etc. Theres a very active social scene with bars / clubs and parties. Huge social groups over there. Always hanging out, going to this place and that, looking to hook up, etc. It is not slow-placed, marriage-minded, family-oriented, and reserved and conservative, like down here. Its the exact opposite.

The women arent necessarily good looking - in the traditional, natural, beautiful sense... Most of them are skinny (as are the guys), and dont have the best figures. What they are is fake-hot, like a lot of celebrities you see. Make-up is definitely in. Even their attire is very flashy, revealing, tight, and inviting. They turn you on almost instantly with their provocative look and attitude. And their get down to business mindset towards sex.

They dont court, go out, get to know each other, have 20 kids and get married. They find that **** boring. The process is more like: a little banter and flirting, some charm and wit, a little contact, hook up for sex. Just like the link you posted. It is exactly like that. No waiting bull****. I like you, you like me, a little bull**** inbetween, lets have sex. Thats why BBs and players are so effective up there - they have that **** down, and the women are all about it just the same. NGs and gentleman are definitely not in-demand - unlike here.

If youre a single guy looking to have fun, party, get laid, date around with multiple women, be in a more active, fast-paced scene, etc - you need to get out of here, and go up north. I talk to a lot of guys who have been down here for a good while - if not their entire lives - and they say the SAME ****... Its boring, the women are lame, conservative, unsexy, shy, reserved, everyone is looking to get (or already is) married, too much religion, nothing to do, no one ever goes out or does anything, etc. Thats how it is down here.

Of course, the lifestyle up there isnt all peaches and roses, either. A lot of drama and chaos; loud, rude, disrespectful, selfish people; cheating and whoring around; lack of loyalty or trust; dysfunctional groups and families; and everything else that comes with that kind of terrority. But they wouldnt be this way otherwise.

Its night and day; complete opposites. Take the good with the bad.

Women also dont give a **** about race, either. Only how you look and dress, if youre popular, social, out-going, and have status, and those kind of things. Most prefer and seek after guys who are aggressive, confident, assertive, sexually experienced, in high demand, etc. Theyre not into shy guys, NGs, and dont really care how "good" you are. Those types are viewed as weak insecure virgins, and get bullied around by women. There's definitely a lot of *****es up there, and fake people in general. Theyre not genuine - only fake and charming. They only try to act decent.
 

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Oh yeah... Most of the blondes you find up there arent naturally blonde. Not many people up there are... They try to fit in to whatever is most acceptable and attractive to the society up there. Thus, a lot of fake, shallow people - including in their superficial personalities.

Go there to get laid, party, and have fun. Do NOT go there to get married.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dafuq? Not in SE Wisconsin, anyway. Just a bunch of regular white people. And by regular, I mean trashy and fake. But that area is HUGE on drinking, bars, and parties.
 

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there are some in Wisconsin, most common heritage there is german

lots in the Dakotas and especially Minnesota
 

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Yeah, true. I knew a lot of germans, but only by nationality. Most of them are mixed, but still white. They're very western, and fit in with the society there. Hard to tell them apart unless you ask, or know them well. They dont usually have accents, dress and act American, and so forth. Blend right in with everybody else.

****, most people thought I was "a white guy with a tan" because of how Americanized I was.
 

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ya well point being they had a lot of blondes up there who were very open to dating asian guys
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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Word. Didnt really know any Asians there. They liked mexicans, though. And chinese, in the city. But they were more gang-like. Both of them.
 

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OP, why are you so surprised?

The dude in the blogpost is good-looking (no homo).

He's also well-dressed with swagger.

Go to a place where most guys don't dress like that -- ie not the west coast or east coast -- and you'll stand out.
 

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floydb25 said:
Word. Didnt really know any Asians there. They liked mexicans, though. And chinese, in the city. But they were more gang-like. Both of them.
how about brown guys like middle eastern and arab and indians?
 

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NewAndImproved said:
OP, why are you so surprised?

The dude in the blogpost is good-looking (no homo).

He's also well-dressed with swagger.

Go to a place where most guys don't dress like that -- ie not the west coast or east coast -- and you'll stand out.
And he's 6'0 tall. :rolleyes:

It's like look: "here is the top 5% of a particular race, see, he has no problem getting laid, there is no race issue!"

:rolleyes:
 

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sounds like I need to go there, I'm trapped in the wretched bible belt. I'm a westernized, tall, good looking, and muscular black guy and I can't pull **** down here.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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