Many greets everyone,
Nice board, super feedback, with very interesting discussions! I will go straightforward to my topic.
Case is the following: While i was having a conversation (texting) with my girlfriend, i did the mistake of saying something i should not. It was a simple but stupid argument, that led to a misunderstanding. The point is that she has been misunderstood, and after that has gotten cold and distant. I have already apologized, however like in most situations, when she says, "it is okay - no problem", it is only concealing it, simply. After that, she has simply stopped texting me first, and probably has broken up with me.(Leaves you questioning that). However, if i text her, she will get into conversation, but only with brief messages and just being cold.(Like she does not know you). In this point i think i should not keep texting her.
Anyway, how would be the best possible way to take it from here? Should i keep the normal flow of messaging, but making it less frequent, or should i give her space, and wait for her to text me, going completely silent?
PS: We are talking about an ldr.
Thnx!
Nice board, super feedback, with very interesting discussions! I will go straightforward to my topic.
Case is the following: While i was having a conversation (texting) with my girlfriend, i did the mistake of saying something i should not. It was a simple but stupid argument, that led to a misunderstanding. The point is that she has been misunderstood, and after that has gotten cold and distant. I have already apologized, however like in most situations, when she says, "it is okay - no problem", it is only concealing it, simply. After that, she has simply stopped texting me first, and probably has broken up with me.(Leaves you questioning that). However, if i text her, she will get into conversation, but only with brief messages and just being cold.(Like she does not know you). In this point i think i should not keep texting her.
Anyway, how would be the best possible way to take it from here? Should i keep the normal flow of messaging, but making it less frequent, or should i give her space, and wait for her to text me, going completely silent?
PS: We are talking about an ldr.
Thnx!