"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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An American Woman who gets it: Carolyn Hax

WestCoaster

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This is a tremendous advice column I read every week. This woman tells it like it is, and cuts down the manipulative game-playing by U.S. women week after week. I don't always agree with her, but most of the time I do. I wish more U.S. women were like her!

Her latest and perhaps best gem -- read the first piece of advice. It's priceless!

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A6985-2004May6.html
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yeah, I have found half of her answers to be excellent, the other half AFC. She usually gives the women hell, but gives AFC advice to men. But that is what they get for asking a woman advice on being a man.

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Hey Westcoast.

You still here?

I thought you were off to Sweden or South Africa to find some quality foriegn women.

:)
 

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Originally posted by WestCoaster
This is a tremendous advice column I read every week. This woman tells it like it is, and cuts down the manipulative game-playing by U.S. women week after week. I don't always agree with her, but most of the time I do. I wish more U.S. women were like her!

Her latest and perhaps best gem -- read the first piece of advice. It's priceless!

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A6985-2004May6.html
yeah, that particular article (the first one) shows how women treat "very good friends". dude shouldn't have gotten attached, but still...

i've always said it: women CANNOT deal with guilt. they will go to the ends of the earth to avoid it! they'll also mercy fvck a dude for a year to avoid it. selfish little tramps.

i'll send that link to my sister--she needs it, from a woman.
 

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Slick, not on my way yet -- darn it!

I do have a goal of going to Sweden and meeting a hottie. One of my best friends is close to marrying a Sweded some 14 years his younger, and he says she has a hot, single sister. I'm seriously trying to get that meeting arranged!

South Africa? Tried that once before. Met this absolute gorgeous gal from Cape Town ... hot as a pistol, with the accent and all.

Sadly, she turned me down ... she was a lesbian (no joke). Of course that's the only way a woman could turn me down! :>)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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