"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mackdaddy27

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although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
 

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Trinitron said:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
ROFLMAO!!
 

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Guys,

look at the first thing he does when he gets into the club...he points to the DJ as if he knows him. ( he probably doesnt but who cares, A DJ WILL always be happy to wave hi to you ) thats social proof right there. and all the girls notice this...

look at the way he walks into the club, probably could improve this with a few waves, and pointing as if he knows everyone, but has a cool , indifferent walk style.. he s not being predatorial or hanging still drinking beers with his buddies.

He grabs the girls hair, and spins her around. thats confident dancing..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OH MY GAWD LOLOLOLOLOL MAKE IT STOP LOLOLOLOLOLOL

this thread is awesome

LOLOLROFLROLOFLFORLFOLFOLORFL..
 

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mackdaddy27 said:
although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
lol ur indian hahhaha
 
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India has hors too, but not as many as the USA!!! We win - YAHOO!!!!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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