"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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an alpha male music video

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although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
 
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Trinitron said:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
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ROFLMAO!!
 
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Guys,

look at the first thing he does when he gets into the club...he points to the DJ as if he knows him. ( he probably doesnt but who cares, A DJ WILL always be happy to wave hi to you ) thats social proof right there. and all the girls notice this...

look at the way he walks into the club, probably could improve this with a few waves, and pointing as if he knows everyone, but has a cool , indifferent walk style.. he s not being predatorial or hanging still drinking beers with his buddies.

He grabs the girls hair, and spins her around. thats confident dancing..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OH MY GAWD LOLOLOLOLOL MAKE IT STOP LOLOLOLOLOLOL

this thread is awesome

LOLOLROFLROLOFLFORLFOLFOLORFL..
 
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mackdaddy27 said:
although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
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lol ur indian hahhaha
 
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India has hors too, but not as many as the USA!!! We win - YAHOO!!!!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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