"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
 

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Trinitron said:
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yRmqZRPgK1w

This is a much better illistration of what you're looking for.

1)The walk he's doing in the beginning, majour alpha points.

2)Look at his body language, especially with the rolling up of his sleeves, how better to say "hey baby, I'm all man".

3)Notice at 0:35 where after gaining extra social proof from the coreography with the male dancers, that the female dancers are immediatly attracted to him.
ROFLMAO!!
 

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Guys,

look at the first thing he does when he gets into the club...he points to the DJ as if he knows him. ( he probably doesnt but who cares, A DJ WILL always be happy to wave hi to you ) thats social proof right there. and all the girls notice this...

look at the way he walks into the club, probably could improve this with a few waves, and pointing as if he knows everyone, but has a cool , indifferent walk style.. he s not being predatorial or hanging still drinking beers with his buddies.

He grabs the girls hair, and spins her around. thats confident dancing..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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OH MY GAWD LOLOLOLOLOL MAKE IT STOP LOLOLOLOLOLOL

this thread is awesome

LOLOLROFLROLOFLFORLFOLFOLORFL..
 

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mackdaddy27 said:
although there are probably much better examples.. ( put the music on mute !)

I ll offer this music video to show the more subtle alpha male characteristics are per mystery http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZBmg867VNZQ&feature=related


1) outfit : he's peacocking .with his outfit, glasses

2) end of the video, hes got 2 girls on either side of him ( social proof)

3) body language, very confident makes direct eye contact and stiff body language at all times

4) has a cell phone in front of her as if to appear that hes busy , and just dances very confidently like he knows shes attracted to him

p.s. thats that style people say I look like when I go out to club... i look alot like the guy in this video I m indian too

what do you think?
lol ur indian hahhaha
 
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India has hors too, but not as many as the USA!!! We win - YAHOO!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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