thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
Minnesota
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
An almost complete list of where a lot of people are from...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Marlimus
Senior Don Juan
Add me to new jersey.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
add me to little rock, aR
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
Detroit, MI
redgriffin
Don Juan
australia, victoria
any other aussie's out there? PM me.
any other aussie's out there? PM me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thefuture
Don Juan
Hollywood, CA
checkin in...
this is ****in great! Hope to meet others from here.
checkin in...
this is ****in great! Hope to meet others from here.
jiza101
Master Don Juan
Melbourne Australia 
MelbourneGuy
New Member
Melbourne guy too!!!
Add me please!
Add me please!
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
I'm from Holland too.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
manila_boy
New Member
add me
m from melbourne, australia
m from melbourne, australia
sparky1981
Don Juan
I'm from Christchurch New Zealand.
Nice to see that there are djs all around the world.
Prob my closest thing to a worldwide experience
Nice to see that there are djs all around the world.
Prob my closest thing to a worldwide experience
ItalianoPuro
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 14, 2005
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Italy HERE!! ItalianoPuro!!
Bet I'm the only one! lol
Bet I'm the only one! lolLost
Master Don Juan
South Carolina here (Charleston) !
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Damian
Senior Don Juan
Sunny California!
mmx
Don Juan
Montreal, Canada
EveryDayFlosser
New Member
Late addition - New York, NY
KarmaSutra
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2005
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<--- Lake-tucky, FL ( but please don't hold it against me. I'm no redneck. I just play one on tv. )
Karma
Karma
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.