"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amt of time required to seal the deal

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kelv

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How much time do you guys take to seal the deal? (the girl be ur gf).

some of ppl i knew took like a month? some takes a yr or 2?

Some took forever.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why focus on getting the girl to be your gf? As Captain said, focus on the physical bit and the girl will ask you in due time. It should be her that wants to be your gf, not the other way around.
 
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It usually takes me between 20 minutes and 4 hours to seal the deal. Like said, the physical relationships are the best, and that's how I roll. I pick up a lot of girls in settings where I'm well known by other people. This means, I have a constant stream of girls coming up to me for a quick chat or to greet me. If I'm talking to a girl, I just roll my usual kino game on the girl that comes over to greet me. Kiss and hug, some standard kino.

Social proof helps sealing a deal quicker, as new girls see you're very touchy with others, and thus you're able to progress further. Be touchy from the beginning, but don't be a creep in your way of touching. Read how she responds to your touchyness.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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