"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amt of time required to seal the deal

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How much time do you guys take to seal the deal? (the girl be ur gf).

some of ppl i knew took like a month? some takes a yr or 2?

Some took forever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why focus on getting the girl to be your gf? As Captain said, focus on the physical bit and the girl will ask you in due time. It should be her that wants to be your gf, not the other way around.
 
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It usually takes me between 20 minutes and 4 hours to seal the deal. Like said, the physical relationships are the best, and that's how I roll. I pick up a lot of girls in settings where I'm well known by other people. This means, I have a constant stream of girls coming up to me for a quick chat or to greet me. If I'm talking to a girl, I just roll my usual kino game on the girl that comes over to greet me. Kiss and hug, some standard kino.

Social proof helps sealing a deal quicker, as new girls see you're very touchy with others, and thus you're able to progress further. Be touchy from the beginning, but don't be a creep in your way of touching. Read how she responds to your touchyness.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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