"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Amsterdam Trip Pix.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alpine

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Some nice pics there mate, you are good at composition.

Shame about Kylie, she definately was giving you the cold shoulder.
 

diablo

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Thanks - I added one picture from the trip to my portfolio; http://www.jbspencer.com/portfolio > composed > inside > glass.jpg

Also, I was hoping someone would notice this on their own... take a look at what the white sign (near the Heineken sign) says in #22 (DSCF0022.JPG). It'd be better if "ajax" was taken out, but I still thought it was kinda humorous...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I-am-someone

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Fun :D
Amsterdam from a tourist's point of view... I've never been to Madame Tussaud or any touristic place in Holland for that matter.
Still, nice to see someone enjoying themselves over here :D

- Someone from Eindhoven
 
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