"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

AMSTERDAM PUA's

Thread starter juleswinns
Start date Jul 21, 2006

juleswinns

Don Juan

Jul 21, 2006

I'm travelling to Amsterdam starting August 8 and will stay there for about a week.
I'm a 26 year old American college student looking to close beautiful women (Yup I'm just an average guy). I'm tall good looking but lack the social skills to close the women I want so if your ahead of the game I would like to learn from you.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.