You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
uhhhh. it's a very simple solution, get a good night's sleep. nothing wrong with you except common-or-garden fatigue.killerasp said:So slept very little in the past of couple of days and when it came time to do the deed with my girl, i couldnt get it up very long. Normally, she would arouse me beyond words and getting an errection was never a problem..only tonight was a problem. It just wouldnt stay up. I would rub myself and it wouldnt stay up strong.
Now i havent slept much in the last couple of days. Maybe 4-5 hrs a day for the last 3 days.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thanks man. makes me feel better bout it.Warboss Alex said:uhhhh. it's a very simple solution, get a good night's sleep. nothing wrong with you except common-or-garden fatigue.