She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
uhhhh. it's a very simple solution, get a good night's sleep. nothing wrong with you except common-or-garden fatigue.killerasp said:So slept very little in the past of couple of days and when it came time to do the deed with my girl, i couldnt get it up very long. Normally, she would arouse me beyond words and getting an errection was never a problem..only tonight was a problem. It just wouldnt stay up. I would rub myself and it wouldnt stay up strong.
Now i havent slept much in the last couple of days. Maybe 4-5 hrs a day for the last 3 days.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thanks man. makes me feel better bout it.Warboss Alex said:uhhhh. it's a very simple solution, get a good night's sleep. nothing wrong with you except common-or-garden fatigue.