"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AMOGS and Blockers

Lil Magic

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Sorry, really long
I went to my aunt's funeral Sunday with two of my friends and we ended up going to the reception too( her son is also one of my best friends our age). Anyway, i met two of my cousin's cousins, who were hot. One was a HB8.5 and 18, the other was an HB8 and 15. I had met the HB8 quite a few times before and we were actually pretty cool. My goal for the night was to get both's numbers and try to throw some game at the 18 year old.
Well, i found out she move to Nassau (the capital) Saturday from and Andros (family island) to attend the University of the Bahamas. So anyway, i made eye contact with the 18 but got no concrete response so i went and chatted up with Rehema (15 yr old), as the two of them and another cousin(14) were together at the reception. By the way, the reception was at my male cousin's grand uncles's house and it was frickin huge (4 stories). The girls, me, my cousin, and two friend all headed downstairs to where the theater, pool and jacuzzi were, my main reason to get away from the adults. Each of the girls' little brothers follow us so its like 4 little children with us too. All of us sit down in the theater and Chrissy (HB8.5) kicks her foot up on me nd i crack a joke about how her foot smells, just to get the ball rolling. She pours lotion into my ear and i think she gives me a wet willie. Things are going okay until one of my friends, who is famous for blocking, starts to block. He literally disses only me for like 30 min, apparently to make himself look funny, which he did according to the other people. I cant really think of any comebacks, except the fact that my grades are like twice his, and my usual comeback : your gonna work for me in the future. In the end, i gatta say, he wins. Later on that night, i manage to get Rehema's number, but i go to get Chrissy's number like this
me:Chrissy, lemme get your number
her:Why are you trying to get my number on a phone that's not yours (i was putting the numbers in my friends phone because mines was stolen)
me:I don't have my phone number
her:(kinda looks for a way to avoid it) Hey! Aunt Lynn, you what are you going to do with that cake (gets up and goes to help her with a pan of cake)
Apparently, Ishan(blocker) see's and laughs loudly, and makes another big scene. How would you handle this and deal with blockers like this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's-Me

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Lil Magic said:
Sorry, really long
I went to my aunt's funeral Sunday with two of my friends and we ended up going to the reception too( her son is also one of my best friends our age). Anyway, i met two of my cousin's cousins, who were hot. One was a HB8.5 and 18, the other was an HB8 and 15. I had met the HB8 quite a few times before and we were actually pretty cool. My goal for the night was to get both's numbers and try to throw some game at the 18 year old.
Well, i found out she move to Nassau (the capital) Saturday from and Andros (family island) to attend the University of the Bahamas. So anyway, i made eye contact with the 18 but got no concrete response so i went and chatted up with Rehema (15 yr old), as the two of them and another cousin(14) were together at the reception. By the way, the reception was at my male cousin's grand uncles's house and it was frickin huge (4 stories). The girls, me, my cousin, and two friend all headed downstairs to where the theater, pool and jacuzzi were, my main reason to get away from the adults. Each of the girls' little brothers follow us so its like 4 little children with us too. All of us sit down in the theater and Chrissy (HB8.5) kicks her foot up on me nd i crack a joke about how her foot smells, just to get the ball rolling. She pours lotion into my ear and i think she gives me a wet willie. Things are going okay until one of my friends, who is famous for blocking, starts to block. He literally disses only me for like 30 min, apparently to make himself look funny, which he did according to the other people. I cant really think of any comebacks, except the fact that my grades are like twice his, and my usual comeback : your gonna work for me in the future. In the end, i gatta say, he wins. Later on that night, i manage to get Rehema's number, but i go to get Chrissy's number like this
me:Chrissy, lemme get your number
her:Why are you trying to get my number on a phone that's not yours (i was putting the numbers in my friends phone because mines was stolen)
me:I don't have my phone number
her:(kinda looks for a way to avoid it) Hey! Aunt Lynn, you what are you going to do with that cake (gets up and goes to help her with a pan of cake)
Apparently, Ishan(blocker) see's and laughs loudly, and makes another big scene. How would you handle this and deal with blockers like this?
Tell him to shut the fvck up and to go away.
 

Juice09

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Ouch! What kind of friend is going to ****block you? Even an alpha friend shouldn't dog you like that.

You should have hit him back with some jokes of your own. Made fun of him. The best way to deal with male ****blockers is to joke about their appearance. If you make the girls laugh, he'll automatically feel like he's lost. There is always something to talk **** about, just be observant and turn it on him in a humorous fashion.
 

eaglez1177

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Dude you cant let yourself take sh*t like that for so long...if I was in your situation I wouldve told that fvcker to shut his mouth otherwise id punch him in his b*tch face
 
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