"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AMOGING situation

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So, I have been flirting with this girl in my class a lot. I usually use the C+F, but I like Durden's recipe(Storytelling, misinterpretation, kino, EC, and roleplaying).She responds very well to our interaction by swatting me on the arm, telling me that I screw with her a lOt(Used this to misinterpret that she wanted to have sex), I am a jerk, etc. Then when I was walking with her out of class, she says that she will wait for her friend. To my surprise its a freaking "EMO" guy. And the second they started talking I froze up and told her that I will see her tomorrow.

Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"

Any suggestions are welcome.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"


First of all, what does "EMO" stand for?

Anyways, why would you want to say that? To bring him down and to try and get yourself up? If he disrespected you in anyway, I'd understand. But from what you said, he didn't do a thing. Seriously man, that's something a hater would say. If I was that dude and you said that to me, I would straight make you look stupid in front of that girl.
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"


First of all, what does "EMO" stand for?

Anyways, why would you want to say that? To bring him down and to try and get yourself up? Seriously man, that's something a hater would say. If I was that dude and you said that to me, I would straight make you look stupid in front of that girl.

You should made sure to stand inbetween him and the girl, physically blocking him that way. Introduce urself to him and then ignore him completely while continueing to talk with the girl.
 

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Originally posted by C00L
You should made sure to stand inbetween him and the girl, physically blocking him that way. Introduce urself to him and then ignore him completely while continueing to talk with the girl.
yup. that's what i would do.

don’t let him get tempo. he's proly better friends with her then you are so don’t let him do something that will make her respond to him.

i'd talk to him about a subject i pick. show her you're a nice guy while talking to him. MAKE SURE YOU"RE BETWEEN HIM AND HER. physical block is awesome! (use ****block on him even if he does not intend on using his **** on her)
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"


First of all, what does "EMO" stand for?

Anyways, why would you want to say that? To bring him down and to try and get yourself up? If he disrespected you in anyway, I'd understand. But from what you said, he didn't do a thing. Seriously man, that's something a hater would say. If I was that dude and you said that to me, I would straight make you look stupid in front of that girl.
EMO is short emotional meaning the bands like taking back sunday, hawthorne heights, thrice, etc. They are the ones that have their hair usually covering their faces and wear really tight pants.

Well, I wanted to say it in a joking fasion not really to insult him. But I thought that AMOGing means to insult in a low key way so that she can laugh at him and I become the alpha.

let me know if this the right way to do it.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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don’t let him get tempo. he's proly better friends with her then you are so don’t let him do something that will make her respond to him.

I disagree. If he is better friends with her and you tried to keep her from responding to him, you'll basically look like an a$$. She would have seen right threw you.

Who cares if he is an EMO guy (whatever that is). You keep your cool, be social and introduce yourself to him (showing you are not intimated by another male being there). Believe me, girls watch for those small details, and those small details speak volumes.

Then, when you are ready to leave, you say bye to her, extend your hand out and say 'nice to meet ya bro, take it easy' and be on your way. Or, if you want to be cooler about it, give him the nod and say 'later bro'.
 

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"You should made sure to stand inbetween him and the girl, physically blocking him that way. Introduce urself to him and then ignore him completely while continueing to talk with the girl."

There's an old saying. "Common courtesy ain't so common any more"

So, tell me why did "EMO guy" scare you so much? And don't tell me he didn't, your whole post shows that you saw a threat.


EDIT: Ya, what biker said!!!
 

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Enough with this AMOG crap please.

Stop with all this working your game every time you two are in class.

Men don’t flirt like women do.

Men show interest by approaching and getting the number then by calling for a date.

It ain't that hard you introduce yourself spit a little game then grab her number and move on about your business.

Your there to learn so learn.

Now look at yourself.

You are already sweating about some guy she met after school.

Man she’s playing you already and you don’t even know it.

Talk about roles being reverse. HaHhhaha

Instead of going about your business after you got the number which you don’t you are trying to think of “cool” DJ tactics and C&F things to say and then it all comes crumbling down when she says she is meeting up with someone and it’s a guy.

Lol you freak cause you aren’t prepared it wasn’t in the script or your notes and she got you.

How funny.
 

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oh yeah i'm reminded of a situation a couple years back. i brought this hot girl, i **** you not if her breasts were bigger she'd be a 10 hands down, to an event and she she started talking to a tall good looking guy. i simply befriended the good looking guy and his friends. i chatted it up and kept it cool. my date and i left and the good looking guy even kissed her hand as we left. i felt the girl saw me in a better light because i was appeared cool and careless about the whole thing. it was probably a test to see how i'd react
 

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Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
"You should made sure to stand inbetween him and the girl, physically blocking him that way. Introduce urself to him and then ignore him completely while continueing to talk with the girl."

There's an old saying. "Common courtesy ain't so common any more"

So, tell me why did "EMO guy" scare you so much? And don't tell me he didn't, your whole post shows that you saw a threat.


EDIT: Ya, what biker said!!!
I have only been in this community for 2 months after a break up with my ex. And the reason that he intimidated me was because the chic loves that kind of music, and I thought he was the type of guy she would go for. So, I kind of put my tail between my legs and lleft.I know its AFC, but I realized after it was to late. Now I want her just for the fact that I can close her.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Enough with this AMOG crap please.

Stop with all this working your game every time you two are in class.

Men don’t flirt like women do.

Men show interest by approaching and getting the number then by calling for a date.

It ain't that hard you introduce yourself spit a little game then grab her number and move on about your business.

Your there to learn so learn.

Now look at yourself.

You are already sweating about some guy she met after school.

Man she’s playing you already and you don’t even know it.

Talk about roles being reverse. HaHhhaha

Instead of going about your business after you got the number which you don’t you are trying to think of “cool” DJ tactics and C&F things to say and then it all comes crumbling down when she says she is meeting up with someone and it’s a guy.

Lol you freak cause you aren’t prepared it wasn’t in the script or your notes and she got you.

How funny.

I already went on a day2 with her. I just hate the fact that we are in the same class because I dont want it to get awkward, so I pla,y plus I get to try out routines on her (cube, 4 questions, palm reading, storytelling, etc)

Just remember that we are not all on your level. We all started out somewhere. I was a freaking the shyest guy around and the only reason I had a girlfriend was because I got lucky, and she was not that hot either.

But I appreciate the insult, I guess tough love huh?
 

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Originally posted by psychgrad
I have only been in this community for 2 months after a break up with my ex. And the reason that he intimidated me was because the chic loves that kind of music, and I thought he was the type of guy she would go for. So, I kind of put my tail between my legs and lleft.I know its AFC, but I realized after it was to late. Now I want her just for the fact that I can close her.
OK, now we have something substantial to work with. She likes the EMO music, so she is not necessarily going to go for HIM. If you can build interest in her, then she will go for you even if he "dresses the part". And if she doesn't go for you, oh well, there's a million more where she came from. There is no reason for you to be intimidated by him over something you have no control over. Maintain your cool, and you'll come out ahead!!

Good Luck!
 

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i think it comes down to the fact that hes an emo douchebag and should be amog'ed on that knowledge alone.

alls fair when killing an emo.
 

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Originally posted by psychgrad
So, I have been flirting with this girl in my class a lot. I usually use the C+F, but I like Durden's recipe(Storytelling, misinterpretation, kino, EC, and roleplaying).She responds very well to our interaction by swatting me on the arm, telling me that I screw with her a lOt(Used this to misinterpret that she wanted to have sex), I am a jerk, etc. Then when I was walking with her out of class, she says that she will wait for her friend. To my surprise its a freaking "EMO" guy. And the second they started talking I froze up and told her that I will see her tomorrow.

Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"

Any suggestions are welcome.
introduce yourself, befriend the guy by telling him a story that demonstrates higher value to your target (while you are talking to the guy and telling him the story the target obviously has to hear what you are saying). By talking to him and completely ignoring her she will start doing things to get your attention, giving you a perfect oppertunity to neg
 

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Originally posted by psychgrad
So, I have been flirting with this girl in my class a lot. I usually use the C+F, but I like Durden's recipe(Storytelling, misinterpretation, kino, EC, and roleplaying).She responds very well to our interaction by swatting me on the arm, telling me that I screw with her a lOt(Used this to misinterpret that she wanted to have sex), I am a jerk, etc. Then when I was walking with her out of class, she says that she will wait for her friend. To my surprise its a freaking "EMO" guy. And the second they started talking I froze up and told her that I will see her tomorrow.

Thinking about it I should have introduced myself to the guy and told him like " hey you look like a boyband member, cool"

Any suggestions are welcome.
Getting some confidence by raising your own value would be pretty good. You wimpering out just shows you think he's better than you.

Another suggestion is to build a robot and install "TylerDurden XP" so you can send the robot out to pick up chicks using the (Storytelling, misinterpretation, kino, EC, and roleplaying)-style.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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