I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
no mate, theres a difference between being a DJ and being a p.rick.organizedconfusion said:
Your the only person I have ever heard of (over the age of 12) that does this for no reason. Try NOT AMOGing ppl and I bet it stops happening to youorganizedconfusion said:
it was actually the course of a few weeks..and not everyone that recites theses silly canned opinion openers are PUAs/Dj's anyone can pick up a magizine or a copy of the game..MindOverMatter said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
who's to say that i am not the guy people should'nt be the one pissing off in the first place? no one has had to drop someone? come on! organizedconfusion said:you guys are a bit slow i can see... read the post carefully- it specificlly even stated that i KNEW what they were up to and i TARGETED them because i wanted to see if they knew what to do in the situation of an obstacle and to see if they how tight their game was...they were chumps like i thought they were, i AMOGed regular guys but they didn't take it personal and either shot back with something equally amusing and antagonizing - we got a laugh out of it and i let them in my circle of friends.do i give a rats azz about some loser that can't take a NEG? i don't care dude , get the hell away from me! and go bother someone else..i'll say it straight up.
if i piss the wrong guy off, who gives a shyte-it'll be my own fault and i guess i'd have to deal with it then now would'nt i?
fvck it, i think you guys are just a little pissy because you know damn well you would hate to get AMOGed and HATE the fact that MAYBE you are being left out of a tight azz set with some really cool company, and it urks you that you didn't even get a chance to kick it or recite a line...get over it. i've dealt with brown nosers for a long time and i can tell when someone wants something from me or my friends- and like i said , i don't care if he's a aspiring DJ or wanna be PUA trying to improve himself- if i don't like him for whatever reason he better stay away from my circle of friends, or be prepared to be NEGGED :rock: like i care if some dork is practicing his routine...get the hell away from me!!! :crackup:
sounds like itorganizedconfusion said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.