"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJVladdy

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This is one of the problems i have with these forums. AMOG, from my understanding means "alpha male of group". Or alpha male other guy. so i get the point.

Now, why the bloody hell does this term even exist. Neither me, or any of my friends even talked about, oh look at that guy, he is such an alpha male, hmmm how do we deal with him?? Oh man he will so out-alpha me, im gonna crap my pants!!!

Guys, wtf? I focus on what i want, on my goals, desires, and what makes me happy. I'm honest with myself. I go about my business and have fun, and if another man crosses my way, or even thinks about doing me wrong, if he takes one look into my eyes, he will see he will have problems on his hands.

This site is for people who are real men, or becoming real men. If you read what i wrote in the previous paragraph, many of you will want to tell me, Vlad wow this IS THE mindset to have! This is right on the money! Guys, this mindset is common sense, nothing more nothing less.

Some loud, charismatic type tried to c0ckblock me at this party, and i gave him a cold look he waltzed away lol. Or i work as a pharmacy technician now, somebody was yelling at my manager. Next day that same person came back and I said, ok 11 dollars or get out, u can argue with my manager, but i dont argue. Thats it.

Always be polite, be kind, especially to older people. Listen guys, true alpha males are modest because they KNOW they are MEN, they dont show off. Many or you chumps are scared of those so-called AMOGs, who need to be put in their place. An alpha male will avoid another alpha male, period. Alpha males respect each other's path and do not cross it. if somebody freely walks in your territory, your territory is not well protected, homie. Im speaking figuratively of course.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJVladdy

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u guys ****en kidding me when i make a thread i expect responses
 

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the alpha male of the group will always get the chicks. they are who you aim to be. so i guess people made up the term "amog" for it.
 

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It really doesn't matter who is "AMOG" because you can change it so easily.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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but i dont understand the concept: why does the group need an alpha male, a leader. Every man should have his own interests.
 

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because every group needs a leader. for example, just like our country needs a president. Not a lot of people consciencly think that they need to be the amog, but it just happens naturally.
 

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ive been/am in various groups of friends... None of my friends are pyssies of course, nobody ever messes with us etc. But there is never an alpha male of group, though many of my friends, including me, POSSESS alpha qualities
 

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I think you're taking this alpha male stuff too seriously. It's really about another guy (OG) who appears to be good with women (AM) coming in and trying to take your girl's interest away. Girls will drop one guy for another she thinks is a bigger better deal.
 
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