"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AMOG in team setting

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So I need a little help guys.

This guy on my team(sport setting) that talks not stop is trying to AMOG me. I think he might see me as a threat or something. He is semi socially aware except I don't think he knows how people view him.

He does the overly touchy feel thing and controls the topic of conversation though sheer volume.

How do I handle this? Anyone else been in a situation like this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In other words, you want to show this guy who's boss. You want to take control of the situation and be the alpha male. You want to mark your territory and piss all over this guy. Sounds like you're the one who's bothered by it - not him.
 

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*sigh* I know. The loud talkative types bug me excessively. It is painful to hear every bad situation he puts him self in and the justifications he makes why it's not his fault when **** goes sour.

It doesn't help that he is one step away from Jimmy the over touchy orderly.

Best not screw over the dynamics of the team and killing the fun by pissing over one guy as you put it. I don't find knocking people down pegs fun anyways :p
 
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