"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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AMOG / Fellow DonJuan & PUA @ the same workplace

charlezz

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Hi,

been in the field for sometime and came across the Djbible (Great material IMO).

A question to come about.

Background
My workplace (Office environment) is filled with HBs, ranging from 6-8. And there are always newcomers.

My fellow PUA Wingman whom we often go sarging together will be joining my workplace. He's great, the level of a mPUA/Alpha (a natural charmer whom came across all possible materials) while at most i'm only a PUA beginner (I'm not bad looking myself) with only several months in-field experience.

This is the only problem i encounter.. insecurity & slight jealousy..

Lots of girls always compare me and him together and like to gauge our charisma level. Although we are of different style and type, I sometimes cannot help brooding about it.

There was once he full closed a HB8 whom I'm interested in too. (But he opened the set, and as a wingman i extract her friend away, but that was another story).

That slightly bothers me, he's a great friend definately and trustworthy. But Its just that he's that good and I will feel AMOGed in my workplace.

What'r your views?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KarmaSutra

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Learn what you can from the Brother. Your insecurity and restlessness are easily swayed because you're the follower. You're mindset is one of competition with your pal and that's the wrong POV. See everything he does as a lesson and then build your own skills upon those lessons.

I learned a very valuable lesson while in film school:

"Talent borrows, genius steals."

That statement has kept me focused about putting myself above all others and keeping me sharp.
 

drZaius09

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Uhh, just a thought, but... maybe you should go to work to, um, work? Perhaps?

I mean, that's why I go to work. I know if I came to work to jerk-off all day I'd be out of money and out of a job pretty fast.

You guys must have some awfully itchy nuts to be grabbing at your crotch all day...
 

Slickster

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Way too many women out there to be worrying about your co-worker and his DJ skills.

There was once he full closed a HB8 whom I'm interested in too.
Yes and behind him there is a line up of 10 more dudes with better skills who are also interested in her as well.

Stay cool there are more than enough hotties for all of us.
 
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