"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amidst two girls in class

defiancy

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I have two girls that are attracted to me in class and I have no experience on what to do since I never worked with this type of situation. So there are two girls that sit across from me in class and ironically they were placed right by each other. The other day I made eye contact with my "favorite" one and she got very flustered; obviously her body language showed it after I locked eyes with her for 3 seconds. But, at the same time the other girl notices and looks back at her and me. The next day(which was today), I didn't make eye contact with either and at the corner of my eye I saw them talking and pointing at me. After class ended my main lingered in class since I take a while to leave. I have no idea if I should approach both of them and get their numbers....choose one of them, or if this is just a trick between them. I have no idea how to react so what do you experienced ones think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cod3r

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I will leave you with one VERY imporant lesson...

DO NOT CHOOSE

It's too painful to recount my experience, but trust me, when you choose you LOSE.


-Cod3r
 

defiancy

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forget both of them and move on?
 
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