"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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amidst two girls in class

defiancy

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I have two girls that are attracted to me in class and I have no experience on what to do since I never worked with this type of situation. So there are two girls that sit across from me in class and ironically they were placed right by each other. The other day I made eye contact with my "favorite" one and she got very flustered; obviously her body language showed it after I locked eyes with her for 3 seconds. But, at the same time the other girl notices and looks back at her and me. The next day(which was today), I didn't make eye contact with either and at the corner of my eye I saw them talking and pointing at me. After class ended my main lingered in class since I take a while to leave. I have no idea if I should approach both of them and get their numbers....choose one of them, or if this is just a trick between them. I have no idea how to react so what do you experienced ones think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I will leave you with one VERY imporant lesson...

DO NOT CHOOSE

It's too painful to recount my experience, but trust me, when you choose you LOSE.


-Cod3r
 

defiancy

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forget both of them and move on?
 
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