"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AMERICANS ONLY!!! Which state has the most HB's!

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What's good my DJ kings! Been offline a bit but just wanted your valued opinions..


Which state or states have you been to that have the hottest and or easiest HB's?! And why??

I'd say Florida is the easiest for all the vacationing HB's...Miami, Lauderdale, West Palm, Boca, and South Beach

Las Vegas NV for the easiest...

California for the hardest to nail...

and New York and New Jersey (Visit the Borgata on Saturday and or Harrah's pool in Atlantic City) for the sexy sweeties who are...Young...Dumb....and FULL OF ***!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wherever there is a high concentration of people. i'd say places like new york, florida, texas, california.

i live in boston and don't think the girls are all that vladdy
 
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B-B-Boston!
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Hurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd thaaaaaaaaaaaaat!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There are plenty of big, fat, stinky Pollack women in Wisconsin. Basicallly the white men have rejected them and the black guys are smart enough to date them and have them pay their bills.
 
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North Carolina... Rhymes with Vagina!!!! By the colleges....and any state by the water will get you someone's FINE ASS daughter!!!
 
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Believe me my niccaz...go to Vegas and or AC on a weekend....You won't believe how many HB's from different states are there horny as a goat! You won't know which one to pick! TOTAL sensory OVERLOAD! Those big money gambling, club, pool party places draw all your "sweet good girlies" like flies on shiznit!! Ask ANYONE who's been to either! You can take your DJ fantasy dream girl there and will easily not care if she dumped you as soon as you got off the damn plane! BOING!!!
 
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Texas
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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South Padre I heard is pretty good spring break...Dallas, Houston, San Antonio...Texas girls like dem big black thangs... ;)
 
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This will sound strange, but Iowa chicks are the hottests ive ever seen

and by the way im from Kansas, so theres no bias
 
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i would say Nevada, California, and Florida
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i like texas bcz a LOT of mexicans live there... and i personally love the cute little mexican look
 
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California, Nevada, Texas, Florida, Georgia (love them Southern Belles!)

Believe it or not, Louisville, Kentucky is also loaded with hot chicks who are usually classy and rich too. Daddy owns race horses, you know?
 
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Man can't believe no one has mentioned... Chicago!!
chitown is where all the cute cuddies be att! :cool:
 
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Yo southern hunnies is where it's at! An you right my DJ brother they be freaks! I lived down south for a minute an visit Georgia, South Carolina, Virgina etc every chance I get! I just love hearin they sweet lil voices moan when I be 9 3/4" pole deep in they stuff! North Carolina raise up! One!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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