"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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American Women...Really this Vain?

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not really. working out and bulking up/slimming down can help you look more attractive to the opposite sex.
financially, there are many opportunities to aquire wealth in the united states.
I would say right now, start lifting weights and building muscle. Hot bytches love a guy whos built.
As far as wealth goes, there are many ways to acquire it, but it all boils down to attitude and commitment towards achieving wealth.

Give LostinTranslation credit though, I am merely reiterating the pavlovian theory.

Trust me, if you look good, have power, are rich or have a combination of the three, they will work in your favor in bedding high-quality women. what you choose to do with them thereafter is up to you
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I guess that you have to want wealth, power, and hotness for yourself; because if your only interest in them is as means to get women, then I can imagine that the pursuit of them would quickly turn into chores, burdens, and obligations ...
a life of self-inflicted torture.
 
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NO NO NO

no money. no power. no wealth.

alot of older men have been posting on the forum

they are good looking. in great shape. plenty of money. have their own company.

but can't score with the programmed chicks

WHY ?

because the chicks program is not money / power / looks

their program is CORPORATE

it's not a nice car

it's a CORPORATE CAR

ie. the car ad in DOLLY/CLEO/COSMO magazine


it's not what is hot

IT'S WHAT PARIS HILTON SAYS IS HOT

ie. she says guys with blue hair are good in bed and hot

chicks adopt this programming

the blue hair becomes the bell


ok i am going to get away from physical examples because alot of it is in their minds

as don juans we have the dj bible and it teaches alot about inner game

inner game is what we use to work around the programming

ie. HB9 is used to guys kissing her ass

we use c0cky and funny

she goes you are different. you act like a man who can have me

the PASSWORD ( act , word , deed , object ) is CORRECT

you can have me


example 206 :

Evil Dr Dolly Magazine creates a young woman

her program to give herself to a man that QUALIFIES what she has been programmed to accept as normal

CAR : skyline is password to unlock emotion

DRINK : rasberry vodka cruiser

CLOTHING : gucci

MUSIC : top 40 mainly rap/r&b

JOB : actor / in band / model / fireman

REP : bad boy


now all i have to do TO GET HER GUARD DOWN

to get past her firewall ( b*tch shield )

is CONNECT


now i am not going to become ANY of those things just to get pu$$y

i am going to use the right words to get her to THINK i am ALL OF THOSE :)

it is like a word association game

but in truth it is pavlovs dog

now it's on the next level :

Pavlov also tried using other stimuli instead of a bell, such as a buzzer and a torch. They all found to work the same except some would take longer to condition than others.

He also found that if the food was presented first, and then the bell, the dog would not salivate at the sound of the bell alone, even after several trials.

Finally, if the conditioned dog hears a similar sound to the original bell, (such as one with a lower tone) the dog will salivate, but not as much.


see what Pavlov said ?

the bell doesn't have to be the same bell

the response is not as strong but you can STILL GET A RESPONSE

so that means you don't have to become what they are programmed to accept

you can even use words that are close to what they are programmed to accept to get a similar response


AFTER YOU GET PAST THE FIREWALL YOU CAN RELAX AND BE YOURSELF

the firewall ( b*tch shield ) is there to stop reprogramming other then corporate and handler reprogramming

otherwise their $120 million in marketing is down the drain because a competitor simple wrote a new program over the top of the womans mind


Lost In Translation :D

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Despite all this talk of "superficial women", I predict most guys on this forum are just as superficial.

How many of you would go out with an ugly girl with a great personality? Would you proudly take her to meet your friends and family? Her looks are "1", her personality is "10". Anyone?


..................


Do I hear any takers?


Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
 

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diplomatic_lies my posts don't refer to looks

i never said superficial

maybe you mean the other don juans above my last post ???

i am talking about corporate brainwashing and mind control

how they do it

how it affects the game and how we can tap in and use it to get a chance just to be able to spit game at these young women today

things are getting out of control with the way these young women think

we need to be aware and informed


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: diplomatic_lies
“ And now, in the spirit of PRL, I'm going to fill up the screen with exclaimation marks “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ I like exclamation points – they are my friend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
diplomatic_lies my posts don't refer to looks

i never said superficial

maybe you mean the other don juans above my last post ???

i am talking about corporate brainwashing and mind control

how they do it

how it affects the game and how we can tap in and use it to get a chance just to be able to spit game at these young women today

things are getting out of control with the way these young women think

we need to be aware and informed


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: diplomatic_lies
“ And now, in the spirit of PRL, I'm going to fill up the screen with exclaimation marks “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ I like exclamation points – they are my friend !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! “
so does this mean that NLP is actually the way to go on these corporate brainwashed chicks?
 

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WHO GIVES A SHYT!

these women arent special by no means.

let the chumps chase after them.:cool:
 

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Originally posted by sstype
so does this mean that NLP is actually the way to go on these corporate brainwashed chicks?
That ... or be a man and take them in hand and do as you please with them. I don't know; but I don't like the idea of playing along with their programming.

I run it through it my mind and I see the dumb ones falling for it completely, only to get needy and demanding of what they think you have, while the smart ones call your bluff, only to dump you maliciously when they see the real you.

Personally, I would rather be man enough to blast her corporate Disneyland into oblivion with a firehose of testosterone :D
 
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I don't know, I don't like the idea of pretending in order to pick up.

Maybe its okay for sex and one-night stands (by the time the chick finds out, you'll be long gone), but if a woman is dumb enough to only go for what Dolly tells her to, than I'm not sure I want anything to do with her.

If you really want to be successful, wealthy, and so forth, why pretend? Why not channel your energies into actually being successful, wealthy, and good looking? If all you're going to do is use "catch words" to pretend to be successful, sooner or later somebody is going to find out, and your reputation as a "all talk, no action" man is going to spread.


And frankly, I think "corporate brainwashing" is overrated. Society has always followed conformity. Before corporations and mass media, we had gossiping handmaidens and noblewomen. Before rock stars and successful businessmen, we had knight crusaders and powerful nobleman. Same thing, different times.
 

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Except the crusading knights and powerful noblemen just tossed the women over their shoulder and carried them back to their beds and homelands without so much as a world :D

In the 21st Century, we instead have long and complicated trade negotiations (for AFCs) and loud and pushy sales pitches (for PUAs).
Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
If you really want to be successful, wealthy, and so forth, why pretend? Why not channel your energies into actually being successful, wealthy, and good looking?
Because I've come to believe that this too is being brainwashed into the corporate "lifestyle", just the male side of things. Unfortunately, I missed out on that, and have ended up without an obsessive need for health, wealth, and power.

They're all a lot more trouble than they're worth to me, and as such I have no real interest in achieving them. I have no idea what went wrong, or how to fix it, but there it is.

This is why I'm so resistant to the idea of self-improvement, because I guess I don't see it as "self"-improvement What? I spend the rest of my life busting my ass for status and stuff that I never wanted, and all that just so some b!tch can get what SHE wants? FVCK THAT!
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Visceral

They're all a lot more trouble than they're worth to me, and as such I have no real interest in achieving them. I have no idea what went wrong, or how to fix it, but there it is.

This is why I'm so resistant to the idea of self-improvement, because I guess I don't see it as "self"-improvement What? I spend the rest of my life busting my ass for status and stuff that I never wanted, and all that just so some b!tch can get what SHE wants? FVCK THAT!
Why does it have to be for status? Aren't health, wealth and success things you should strive for? Why associate all these things as "just something to get women" when it should be your aspiration. Why would you spend the rest of your life "busting your ass" when you can find a way of investing your money and make it work for you instead? Money isn't a means to an end, it's an end to a means. Wouldn't it be nice to be young and spend 8 hours a day not working but doing something you enjoy, like spending time with your family?

You're looking at things all wrong. If you put effort into bettering all aspects in your life, everything will fall in place. You will find the women when you possess the qualities women desire. sstype does have a good point- although we shouldn't be getting rich and working out for girls, it should be for enriching our lives and realizing if you aren't a social butterfly and have great people skills it may be tougher to find a decent girl (since there's such a small percentage of those left with qualities we desire). If you want those special girls you need to make yourself stand out. Do whatever it takes.
 

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Alot of things go into it. I do agree about the programming Lost in Translation talks of.

So many women are sheep. They follow their friends who are also sheep.

They need a man that leads them. But of course he has to pass all those stupid little requirements women store in their peabrains.

**** EM. That is why I advocate the numbers technique. Treat a woman like a number until she deserves better.

Dont' give a **** about any hoe until you've ****ed em 3 times. That's going to be part of my new policy in a month.
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation

welcome to 1984 !

WELCOME TO THE MATRIX !
Welcome to the 21st century! Guess what folks? You have two choices:

1) Be one of the programmed masses - the 90% of folks who choose to live in utter mediocrity, who complain that life isn't fair, women are b!tches, that wealth status and physical appearance don't matter. Whine all you want that the bank and corporations own you.

2) Be one of the programmers - the 10% of folks who strive for excellence in all areas of life. The leaders in society. The people who move money, run businesses and make the world turn.

Anybody who is rich or famous and worked hard to get where they are is a part of group 2. They know how the game works, they've become master programmers.

In group 1 you get all the stupid selfish women, the attention hors, the Paris Hilton wannabes. You also get the fatties and the fuglies. You get the sperm thieves too who want you to control you with marriage.

There really are hot, smart, feminine, total quality women out there and they get taken by group 2.

Now, which group are you a part of? If you really want to be a member of group 2, stop hanging around with the group 1 folks! Cut all the programming and bad habits out of yourself that makes you yet another in the flock of sheople (my word for all the sheep people).

Take the red pill folks and see the world for how it really is!
 

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LIT has a point

... but I'm not about to get mixed up in that sort of business, even in a roundabout way.

To hell with the brand names. If I like it, I like it; if I don't, I don't. That's all there is to it. What the gal wants doesn't even register, as far as this sort of stuff goes. She can wear/drive/etc. whatever she wants, and I'll do the same.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by avrilishot
lol thats good.


yep girls are bithes sometimes to bad.
yep, girls are *****es somtimes too bad.

I'm sorry its a habit....
 
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