SirFratserlot
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It's like playing with fire with them. You'll get burned eventually.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
American women are bad for your self esteem
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
switch
Master Don Juan
pfft who cares man, srsly.
if you really care about what other people think about you then its time for the last but best of the unwritten secrets in the DJ bible:
1.find the address to goundra's online shop OR visit it on site
2.buy a .22 , remember kids,a .22 is just fine,.45 is overkill according to uncle goundra
3.buy some home-made ammu-nation ammo from twentee (btw that bearded man is twentee's wife, twentee is actually fatter and bald)
4. find a quiet place
5.shoot yourself
do the above and afterwards you get to see innocent virgins in white,playing a harp, flying and sh!t
if you really care about what other people think about you then its time for the last but best of the unwritten secrets in the DJ bible:
1.find the address to goundra's online shop OR visit it on site
2.buy a .22 , remember kids,a .22 is just fine,.45 is overkill according to uncle goundra
3.buy some home-made ammu-nation ammo from twentee (btw that bearded man is twentee's wife, twentee is actually fatter and bald)
4. find a quiet place
5.shoot yourself
do the above and afterwards you get to see innocent virgins in white,playing a harp, flying and sh!t
VikingKing
Banned
All women are bad for your self esteem if you allow it. So stop letting them affect it. The only things that affect you positively or negatively are things that you let affect you.SirFratserlot said:
Base your self-worth on yourself, and not how others judge you.
Stop seeking validation from external things.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
noobolgy said:
and it's normal to get affected at times, it's getting over it faster than the other guy that sets you a part. And eventually that thing that affected you will longer faze you.foreverAFC
Master Don Juan
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your posts are getting more disturbing all the time, you are well on your way to becoming the next george sodini, you really need to find some other hobby to channel your frustrations into, something like a martial art or take working out to the next level
i think part of the problem is that you are in a frat, i mentioned this before on another thread that you made, im not sure if you read it so im going to post it again:
"have you ever considered that being in a frat could be part of the problem? the types of females that are in sororities or like to hang out at frathouses are not females that you can really take seriously, they are mostly c0ck teases, attention wh0rs, and actual wh0res
and no offense, but fraternities are mainly for guys who like to gangrape drunk women
i had friend who was in a frat so i went over to the place a few times, and thats the type of stuff i saw every time, in fact the chapter ended up getting shut down cause the head sorority chick next door passed out and had a train run on her in the hallway, and somoene stuck a mini louiville slugger up her ass, and then there was the basement were these fat ugly chicks were always getting tag teamed and gangbanged down there in dark by these fat disgusting frat guys
i used to read the daily crime blotter in the college paper and i used to notice all the rapes and sexual assaults reported at all the different frats and sororities
there were more than few times when girls who were 15 and 16 were pointed out to me at parties and told they had snuck out of their house to come to this frat party, what happened to them later that night only god knows
one of the worst things i saw was one was one night a few of the guys had picked up some fat disgusting 35-40 year old chick at the 711 who wanted some of their beer, and they took her back to the place and ran a train on her while her little kid waited downstairs, i think that was the last time i ever went back to the place
this may also be why i am pretty shell shocked when it comes to females and relationships, i was very young and naive at the time, and i was looking for a serious gf and really needed one at the time, going to the frat house and seeing drunk females constantly dragged into rooms with 4 or 5 diff guys and then hearing her get pounded even though you are sitting 3 rooms over, i think it may have done a lot of damage to me emotionally
but yeah....uh ....maybe look for females elsewhere"
i think part of the problem is that you are in a frat, i mentioned this before on another thread that you made, im not sure if you read it so im going to post it again:
"have you ever considered that being in a frat could be part of the problem? the types of females that are in sororities or like to hang out at frathouses are not females that you can really take seriously, they are mostly c0ck teases, attention wh0rs, and actual wh0res
and no offense, but fraternities are mainly for guys who like to gangrape drunk women
i had friend who was in a frat so i went over to the place a few times, and thats the type of stuff i saw every time, in fact the chapter ended up getting shut down cause the head sorority chick next door passed out and had a train run on her in the hallway, and somoene stuck a mini louiville slugger up her ass, and then there was the basement were these fat ugly chicks were always getting tag teamed and gangbanged down there in dark by these fat disgusting frat guys
i used to read the daily crime blotter in the college paper and i used to notice all the rapes and sexual assaults reported at all the different frats and sororities
there were more than few times when girls who were 15 and 16 were pointed out to me at parties and told they had snuck out of their house to come to this frat party, what happened to them later that night only god knows
one of the worst things i saw was one was one night a few of the guys had picked up some fat disgusting 35-40 year old chick at the 711 who wanted some of their beer, and they took her back to the place and ran a train on her while her little kid waited downstairs, i think that was the last time i ever went back to the place
this may also be why i am pretty shell shocked when it comes to females and relationships, i was very young and naive at the time, and i was looking for a serious gf and really needed one at the time, going to the frat house and seeing drunk females constantly dragged into rooms with 4 or 5 diff guys and then hearing her get pounded even though you are sitting 3 rooms over, i think it may have done a lot of damage to me emotionally
but yeah....uh ....maybe look for females elsewhere"
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SirFratserlot
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no my fraternity doesn't do shvt like that and it's not the fraternity. It's just I'm a black proper male in america. It's a catch 22 in this country.
i hear you man... you have a point about the catch 22...
there are sum ugly aspects of becoming a "pick up artist", such as what you
need to endure to get to that level, but things like that can't be avoided.
usually, there are positives and negatives to every occurrence. regarding american women, a positive in trying to pick them up is that (for me) 1)makes one a better speaker 2)makes ones better adept in dealing with uncomfortable social situations 3) increases confidence
here's a possible one: 4) prepares you (more than what you need) in approaching a non-american cvnt (which you may want for something more serious, a la LiveFreeX)
there are sum ugly aspects of becoming a "pick up artist", such as what you
need to endure to get to that level, but things like that can't be avoided.
usually, there are positives and negatives to every occurrence. regarding american women, a positive in trying to pick them up is that (for me) 1)makes one a better speaker 2)makes ones better adept in dealing with uncomfortable social situations 3) increases confidence
here's a possible one: 4) prepares you (more than what you need) in approaching a non-american cvnt (which you may want for something more serious, a la LiveFreeX)