"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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CaliGuyInLondon

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Hey guys. I'm somewhat new to this whole Don Juan thing, but loving everything I'm reading/learning. I'm from California but living in London for a bit now. I wanted to go out tonight but didn't want to go out alone and all my American friends are out of town for the weekend. I was wondering if anyone in the UK wanted to go out and chill and try to pick up some ladies. Let me know! Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CaliGuyInLondon said:
Hey guys. I'm somewhat new to this whole Don Juan thing, but loving everything I'm reading/learning. I'm from California but living in London for a bit now. I wanted to go out tonight but didn't want to go out alone and all my American friends are out of town for the weekend. I was wondering if anyone in the UK wanted to go out and chill and try to pick up some ladies. Let me know! Thanks!
How long u in London for bro?

I live in Central London
 
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