"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sodbuster

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What you going to do? wear it as a necklace? I mean PRACTICALLY-how can you flash it all night,so everyone knows you have it; and not look like you are bragging or trying to compensate?
 

Teflon_Mcgee

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I think only guys and mature gold diggers know what the black cards are. 99% of young (and especially attractive) girls will have no idea it's anything special.

And yeah, what sodbuster said....
 

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I can't believe people buy into the hype hook line and sinker. Congrats, you can monetize some high interest debt to a large degree...can't a cookie?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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punch a hole through the top right corner and wear it on a necklace
 

thedude4242

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good now we can have more debt here in america and our economy can be more f'd up.
 

thedude4242

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anyone can have a black card, its when you put whatever you want on it and it is no sweat to pay it off.
 

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thedude4242 said:
anyone can have a black card, its when you put whatever you want on it and it is no sweat to pay it off.
The rich and famous use this sh*t.

You're gonna get one for what? To wear as a bracelet? Are you trying to attract gold-diggers? That's all you'll get for the most part.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what the fvck. are u serious. i thought this site was about developing actual game and self esteem/confidence to get women, not using our material possesion (cars,cribs,black cards). if u are even considering usin this to attract chicks then u seriously need to work on some inner game. i cant believe the other djs on here aint blazed ur azz yet for this post.
 

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AmEx sucks anyways, regardless of what color your card is.
 

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I have a blue card and it's the most important thing in my wallet.

Amex aren't credit cards they are cash cards. you have to pay off whatever you buy at the end of the month.

stops me from having to carry cash. wouldn't leave home without it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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