SELF-MASTERY
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Most non-American english speakers that I have met claim that American accents sound flat and nasal, but like most things somebody will find it sexy...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's because we DON'T have an accent, its the brits and aussies who doMethod Boy said:I never really thought Americans had accents. I've felt as if people from other countries like Australia and England were the ones with the accents.
But not everyone in America talks the same. Some of them must have accents, too.That's because we DON'T have an accent, its the brits and aussies who do
Ok, so I was wrong. Let me rephrase. 99% of americans don't have an accent. there, you happy?Unregistered said:But not everyone in America talks the same. Some of them must have accents, too.
Face it, everyone talks differently. Is there a right way to speak?
Yes. Mine.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
YEAH! Aussies are total sluts! I love them. Easy and sweet as pie.Mr_knowit_all said:I'll tell you this, in Australia, the women are ALL OVER American guys.
What LANGUAGE DO WE SPEAK, a$$hole? We, Americans, speak ENGLISH. you fvcking moron!! are you going to go on to say that france stole French from Quebec? WTF! or mexico stole spanish from spain?! look at their names! France! French. Spain. Spanish. Wow, what a concept!!Deus ex Pianoforte said:A lot of your questions will be answered in 7th/8th grade...hang in there.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What the fvck are you talking about? are you on drugs?ima str8 up pimp said:Im just sick and tired of people picking on the little guy, he means well and I have all the confidence in the world he'll succeed in whatever area he wants... it all starts inside of you![]()
Are you going to make me look foolish, you sad piece of shyt?ima str8 up pimp said:Im sorry u came off to me as being picked on. Take no offense. Dont challenge me though bc Ill make you look pretty foolish.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If you didn't notice, I was making the joke that English is invented by Americans. And even if I was "picked on", no thanks, I don't need a beaner to help meima str8 up pimp said:I'm sorry you're angry I was just looking out for ya bud.
Thanks... I'm going to taco bellima str8 up pimp said:Ohhh I could make you look foolish trust me. I'm not going to hate you. Do whatever you have to do. But me and the "secret society of people" if any on this site, know what's really going on. Have a nice day pal
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Why don't you ask mommy for some cookies while you're at it too?ima str8 up pimp said:I love chalupas ahhh I just realized I havent had a bite to eat all day and it's 6:21 !!! I'm gonna try and get some right now and Im not even joking thanks for the tip. I'll try and ask my mom (liscense was taken away) o well. peace out A-Town.
Let me just add that if you've read my thread you will have realized that you lost the moment you decided to speak negatively.
For the "secret society" I'm sorry but I just had to point that one out, I haven't eaten all day, I'm starved.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.