"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jerry Maguire

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With my girlfriend doing reasonably well performing as part of a local band, it made me realise that I have no real hobbies anymore.
Her musical influence has rubbed off on me, which made me take up the guitar and about to take up the drums.
However, as much fun as they are to play, I'm pretty ****, as one could expect from only been playing for a week.
Other hobbies which interest me, which I have dabbled in the past, such as motocross, thai boxing and photography also interest me but I'm also pretty **** at all of them.

The thing is, I obviously want to be more successful than my girlfriend...

Philosophies/input please?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Silkandsteel

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Tried cooking? I'm serious...
 
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Demon

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You're pretty good at being bad though, right? That's something...

Read my article in my signature. You might find a pick-me-up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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