"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ambition

Jerry Maguire

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With my girlfriend doing reasonably well performing as part of a local band, it made me realise that I have no real hobbies anymore.
Her musical influence has rubbed off on me, which made me take up the guitar and about to take up the drums.
However, as much fun as they are to play, I'm pretty ****, as one could expect from only been playing for a week.
Other hobbies which interest me, which I have dabbled in the past, such as motocross, thai boxing and photography also interest me but I'm also pretty **** at all of them.

The thing is, I obviously want to be more successful than my girlfriend...

Philosophies/input please?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Silkandsteel

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Tried cooking? I'm serious...
 

Demon

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You're pretty good at being bad though, right? That's something...

Read my article in my signature. You might find a pick-me-up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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