So women will leave a guy because he has no career ambitions to make a lot of money. But women will also cheat on the ambitious guy with an ex con with no career prospects. If she ended up locking down the exciting ex con she would then cheat on him with an ambitious rich beta. Um......I think I am going to live my life the way I want. This whole thing is confusing lol.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ambition vs excitement
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Women have dual sexual strategies she shifts between according to her circumstances and point in her cycle, in life and menstruation.
Excitment (ovulation, pre-wall as generalisation) vs stability and safety. If you know their nature it's easier to understand.
Excitment (ovulation, pre-wall as generalisation) vs stability and safety. If you know their nature it's easier to understand.