"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sprinter911

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Hey, i came to this site 2 years ago after my longtime gf broke up with me, i was devestated this site got me thru it and i learned and applied a great deal. In the past few months i have come to realize how valuable this site is i have always been really good looking, however my personality used to suck "AFC" as of late its as if everything is comming together.. i am dating 5 different girls at the moment and having the best time of my life... it only took me 23 years to start. It seems that with this newfound confidence every aspect of my life has improved. Thanks everyone !!!!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sprinter911

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LOL alot better than the way i used to be.... hanging out at one girls house until the weee hours of the morning, taking her out and getting her everything she wanted and watching stations like Lifetime with her :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by sprinter911
LOL alot better than the way i used to be.... hanging out at one girls house until the weee hours of the morning, taking her out and getting her everything she wanted and watching stations like Lifetime with her :rolleyes:
Ouch, haha.

Good job, keep at it :)
 
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