Amazing results from changing hair and eye color

[asa_don]

That's what I was wondering about, how convincing it'll look and if it might get pulled loose.

For fuller hair to make the improvement in dating success I believe it could, the hairpiece has to look authentic. I'm sure any decency rug might pass muster in a dimly litted bar. But what happens when it's done it's duty and you have sex? Women oftentimes like to grab and run their fingers through full hair.

I never notice if a guy is wearing a hairpiece or not. There must be good ones as many actors wore them and you can't tell. I think having to resort to hairpieces and hair transplants is ridiculous. I think it's ridiculous that women care so much about thinning hair and every little appearance thing. But at the same time I'm convinced thicker hair would get me back in the dating market like I was.

I just wished I could experiment with a very good hairpiece and if proves to make a difference, get a very good hair transplant surgery (but then they still want you to use finastride and minoxidil, which I won't). That's big bucks though. Then there's shaving your head, but I just don't think that will work.

yeah, but the actors are just wearing them to act or to appear in public and probably not doing anything real physical while wearing it. the men i saw wearing the fake looking wigs were older, it didnt match the real hair color on the side of their head. the guy at the restaurant had a full hairpiece and it got pulled off.

maybe there is a store near you that sells them, you can try them on and pull on it to see how secure it is. i'd be careful trying to wear one during sex or if a chick sleeps over with you, if it came off that would be embarrassing. i'm sure there might be some where you cant tell, you just want to make sure it doesnt come off.

 

[zinc4]

To take this looks experiment a step further, I bleached my hair yellow the other day and went clubbing. No girl would touch me with a 10 foot pole....which is saying somthting here in Taiwan...no amount of game helped because i was constantly blown out from the first word out of my mouth or first physical gesture in both day and night club game. I'm talking about well over 100 rejections here...harsh rejections too for the most part....i went at it pretty hard talking to every chick i saw then playing the aloof card dancing by myself at the club which will get me chicks when i look good....the changing up the club and hitting on every chick in sight...nothing nada...ok one really drunk girl at the very end of the night...but there was a HUGE difference as opposed to with my hair another color...

So today i went back to the salon and changed it to jet black like an Italian or Portugese dude....major eye contact on the train ride home and signs of interest as well as some random guy who is a clothing store worker babbling about how handsome i am.....

Conclusion....no amount of game is going to overcome looks except perhaps patient social circle/status game. And when you do look good game is very very simple and easy if you know a few common rules. Even good dancing abillity which i have in spades, isn't enough to overcome looks. PUA guys touting game so much are full of sh%t.....the only real game there is is inner game....controlling and bettering yourself and the abillty to change yourself and adapt

 

[Jaylan]

^I will agree that game cant overcome a women not being physically attracted to you. But knowing how to talk to a woman is necessary in closing the deal if she is attracted to you.

 

[Cerwin Vega]

My ex had brunette hair and the most stunning, hazel eyes, exactly like this:
http://www.stylemotivation.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/makeup-ideas-for-green-eyes-13.jpg

Most of the attention she was getting was due to her eyes. I was also crazy about her eyes and it was the reason why I started talking her in the first place.

I have dark brown hair and eyes, she always used to tell me how attractive it is and how dark colored eyes show masculinity, strength and power, as opposed to light colored eyes. I guess that people are attracted to someone who is the opposite of them (gene pool etc)

 

[3agle 3yes]

Zinc, I don't think you understood what I was saying.

...Merely becoming more charismatic and sociable in itself will NOT put you ahead of a better looking guy with a chick...not for quick easy sex at least....you are fooling yourself if you think otherwise...looks will always triumph despite what some women may say....

So you're saying being good looking in ITSELF will get you easy sex?

Why is it that whenever there is a looks argument people tend to see things in black and white?

It's as if, if you aren't good looking then you're fugly. Or if you're good looking all you need to do is stand there and pose and women will grab you, take you to their place and f*ck you senseless.

What does a good looking guy look like anyway? It's not always obvious if a woman is interested in you, so assume she is until otherwise. Besides there's been plenty of times I've f*cked girls who weren't all over me to begin with.

We as men have a lot more about ourselves in general...there are many ways to attract a woman, this mostly isn't the case for women.

The only thing that can trump looks for easy sex from strange sluts is very high status like celebrity type of thing........bottom line is looks go the farthest the quickest and make everything 10 times easier and triumph almost anything for casual...

Like I posted above, different women like different things and you still need social skills and to be willing to initiate and to be sexual... If you don't then your prospects will be cut by half.

Women aren 't actually attracted to high status men or celebrities, their attraction is based on the fact that they PERCEIVE you differently. You can get a woman to perceive you differently without being high status or a celebrity.

Conclusion....no amount of game is going to overcome looks except perhaps patient social circle/status game. And when you do look good game is very very simple and easy if you know a few common rules. Even good dancing abillity which i have in spades, isn't enough to overcome looks. PUA guys touting game so much are full of sh%t.....the only real game there is is inner game....controlling and bettering yourself and the abillty to change yourself and adapt

You used an extreme example where you became almost repulsive (dying your hair yellow), most men don't look repulsive, they just look average. Looks will open doors and get women interested by giving you attention, but it won 't get you laid on its own, believe me I know.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Am I the only Guy that thinks wearing "light colored" contacts and/or dying hair is a bit much, unauthentic, and a lil bit gay?

I wore hazel contacts...when I was like 15..... then I took them sh1ts out.

I surely was expecting people to post and disagree but I guess maybe only I feel this way.

Nevertheless, read 3agle 3yes last paragraph, that is the truth.

If you wanna be a little pvssy victim and blame something you can't control for your failings that's on you.

In conclusion, Looks matter just as much as you let them

Change what you can, accept what you can't.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Conclusion....no amount of game is going to overcome looks except perhaps patient social circle/status game. And when you do look good game is very very simple and easy if you know a few common rules. Even good dancing abillity which i have in spades, isn't enough to overcome looks. PUA guys touting game so much are full of sh%t.....the only real game there is is inner game....controlling and bettering yourself and the abillty to change yourself and adapt

This exactly except I don't put much into "inner game". Provided you have what is considered near average/normal personality and not obvious mental problems or handicap or very shy and intorverted, the only game is appearance. It's all about apearance.

Females are the most visual/superficial/shallow of all humans. They either see you as attractive enough or hot or no go. Then they subjectively fill in and rationalize your game/personality from that.

You cannot game your way around a looks/appearance objection. What you can do at times is status your way around it in social circle. You're not really gaming her, she's observing how you interact and your status interacting with others.

 

[zekko]

Am I the only Guy that thinks wearing "light colored" contacts and/or dying hair is a bit much, unauthentic, and a lil bit gay?

Any time you are putting an out of the ordinary type of effort into your appearance, you run the risk of coming off as feminine. Because being about your looks all the time is a feminine trait, not a masculine trait. People my age felt the same way when guys started wearing earrings, facial piercings, studs, black fingernails, that type of thing. It's all kind of a feminine/metrosexual vibe.

Thing is, some women will be turned off by it, because it is feminine. And others will be into it, because it's nonconvential and rebellious, and because gender blending is in style to some extent - not to mention encouraged to high heaven and back by the media.

Provided you have what is considered near average/normal personality and not obvious mental problems or handicap or very shy and intorverted, the only game is appearance. It's all about apearance.

How do you explain Ross Jeffries and Neil Strauss?

One thing I do notice in The Game, when Mystery takes Strauss as his wing, the first thing he does is make changes to his appearance - has him shave his hair off and dresses him differently. He definitely had an interest in appearances. I'm not sure if he did that just to make him look better, or if he did it so that his appearance made a statement of some sort, or both.

 

[Stagger Lee]

When I say looks/appearance, I'm not really talking about fashion/style so much as mostly things that are hard to impossible to change-thick non graying hair, good teeth, looking fit; healthy; youthful in general, good skin and complexion, and what I think is most important a handsome and symmetrical face. Also non-verbals and body language. That's not to say that style/fashion and good fitting clothes aren't beneficial, but like game, they won't make up for the more important looks/appearance factors. At best the are just icing on the cake.

How do you explain Ross Jeffries and Neil Strauss?

One thing I do notice in The Game, when Mystery takes Strauss as his wing, the first thing he does is make changes to his appearance - has him shave his hair off and dresses him differently. He definitely had an interest in appearances. I'm not sure if he did that just to make him look better, or if he did it so that his appearance made a statement of some sort, or both.

There's nothing really to explain about Ross Jefferies and Neil Strauss. NS is a journalist and a professional storyteller who was making money telling a (mostly fictional, exaggerated) story. RJ is a pick up marketer. Even if I assumed these guys are no better than average looking, I have no good reason to believe they attract women, at least not an better than guys with the similar looks playing the numbers game.

 

[insanity is humanity]

Alot of girls like dark hair light eyes. Ive proven it multiple times.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Blue eyes actually are resessive and make the guy look soft and weak. And in some cases gay

I agree with this statement totally. No women in my family like colored eyes, says it makes men look gay and blue eyes are cold and empty. I notice more latina girls and black girls liking minority men with colored eyes, like the ugly mugshot dude, if his eyes were brown he would of never of blown up.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

You can be ugly and be black or latino and if you have blue or green eyes you will pull women I seen it happen many times

 

[zinc4]

i don't understand the whole hair and eye color attraction `thing.....i look at a woman's body first and then her face......long hair is always a plus, but color...i really don't care if it's rainbho......as long as face and body are hot...eyes...are u kidding me??? Whoe the f%cvk cares abou`t eye color??? that is just so dumb on so many l;evels...i can never com,prehend it....its just a color....

 

[zinc4]

This exactly except I don't put much into "inner game". Provided you have what is considered near average/normal personality and not obvious mental problems or handicap or very shy and intorverted, the only game is appearance. It's all about apearance.

Females are the most visual/superficial/shallow of all humans. They either see you as attractive enough or hot or no go. Then they subjectively fill in and rationalize your game/personality from that.

You cannot game your way around a looks/appearance objection. What you can do at times is status your way around it in social circle. You're not really gaming her, she's observing how you interact and your status interacting with others.

Yep....anyone saying otherwise, doesn't have a lot of big night club experience...looks always triumph with raw attraction....the onl;y game that can compensate is going out of your way to makke a girl jealous...ex:dancing with a girl and then going to another girl and dancing/making out...but this is hit or miss....when she sees the more shiny object she won't be jealous....basically, the only way to triumph get a l;ot of women wanting you at the same time and competing......but good looks get you this naturally....looks over game....

 

[zinc4]

Am I the only Guy that thinks wearing "light colored" contacts and/or dying hair is a bit much, unauthentic, and a lil bit gay?

I wore hazel contacts...when I was like 15..... then I took them sh1ts out.

I surely was expecting people to post and disagree but I guess maybe only I feel this way.

Nevertheless, read 3agle 3yes last paragraph, that is the truth.

If you wanna be a little pvssy victim and blame something you can't control for your failings that's on you.

In conclusion, Looks matter just as much as you let them

Change what you can, accept what you can't.

i do whatever i think about....you should try it sometime

 

[insanity is humanity]

Hey i look like a vampire. And not one of those gay ones from twilight which doesnt even matter cause *****es love that movie.
Dark hair gray eyes works for me and alot of kids i know lol.