"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amazing date?

king0fhearts59

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i met this girl last weekend on a double date and shes hot :up: i liked her style so i got her number and today our text convo went like this:


her: hey matty its me! whats up how are ya?
me: oh hi me! refresh my memory again, whats your REAL name?
her: ASHLEE YOU JERK, duhh who else would it be, whats up? how are ya?
me : great, at work.. yourself?
her: jus finished with classes for today
me: pretty fresh, do you have any plans this weekend?
her: not that i know of, im usually a last minute kind of plans person.
me: damn see? you are a certified bad ass (inside joke from last date)... well since you have nothing to do hows a date with me sound?
her: surely, why not lol
me: great, well ill stop wasting your texts and call you sometime this week.

so first off i think i played it pretty don juan there, but now the second part of my post, i want to take her on an amazing date, or at least have help from you guys with standards of an amazing date anyway so please help a brotha out im all ears
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

The Motivator

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dont think of things as dates, think of it as hanging out, guys **** girls when they hang out, girls use guys for $$ on dates
 

xectxny19x

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where do YOU want to go? might as well find out if this girl is into the same things you are.

anyway, have fun, dude! :up:
 
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