"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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amazing date?

king0fhearts59

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i met this girl last weekend on a double date and shes hot :up: i liked her style so i got her number and today our text convo went like this:


her: hey matty its me! whats up how are ya?
me: oh hi me! refresh my memory again, whats your REAL name?
her: ASHLEE YOU JERK, duhh who else would it be, whats up? how are ya?
me : great, at work.. yourself?
her: jus finished with classes for today
me: pretty fresh, do you have any plans this weekend?
her: not that i know of, im usually a last minute kind of plans person.
me: damn see? you are a certified bad ass (inside joke from last date)... well since you have nothing to do hows a date with me sound?
her: surely, why not lol
me: great, well ill stop wasting your texts and call you sometime this week.

so first off i think i played it pretty don juan there, but now the second part of my post, i want to take her on an amazing date, or at least have help from you guys with standards of an amazing date anyway so please help a brotha out im all ears
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Motivator

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dont think of things as dates, think of it as hanging out, guys **** girls when they hang out, girls use guys for $$ on dates
 

xectxny19x

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where do YOU want to go? might as well find out if this girl is into the same things you are.

anyway, have fun, dude! :up:
 
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