You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I didn't say you had to engage them in conversation. My suggestion has more to do with getting some replies. You CAN let the match expire, you know.....
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
fitness model bodies? dude I just want a woman who works out. Tons and tons and tons of them on match.com and okcupid
Show me all the girls you have messaged.
I messaged a decent looking black girl today who was in decent shape
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
afraid of effort? I would send 6 months constantly on bumble if it meant some dates with decent looking women but I already know it would only lead to rejection.
What? Black women are awesome when they are in shape. Lol
I can private message you guys but what's the point? you already know black women will never top out above a 6ish unless very light skinned. She was not
No...they dont. You're just not in the top 15% like you think you are. I see you as a 6 chasing 9's.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
you're drunk. They are bottom of our social hierarchy behind white, asian and latin. 80% of my friends would never date a black girl
you're insane
I am not insane. Results are all that matter. You dont get any.
You are looking at sex and dating as a logic question with a logical answer. Dating and sex has nothing to do with logic. Simply put, emotions are logical, they are emotions. Women act on their emotions, therefore, logic would not apply. You are looking at the game all wrong. That's the problem. I am surprised you are a car salesman. You act more like a programmer. You need to sell yourself like you are selling a car. Rewire your brain and you'd have better luck.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
my pics on photofeeler- set to women under 34 only can vote all rated between 6.5 at bottom to 9/10 at top
Pointless post as usual.
why you think this is?
bro all you have with online dating is pics and profile. I have a good profile and good pics...still doesn't seem to be enough
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.