Am not afraid of talking to the girl i like anymore - a few problems

[HOT_CHILLI]

Today at work i dont know what it was but i felt i could talk to absolutely anybody about anything and not worry one bit. I could have asked out this girl that i have liked for a while now but i didnt because i felt i hadnt built any attraction.
When i talk to her usually my heart rate increases and my head fills with unneccesary thoughts like 'does she liike me?' 'am i doing this right?' and also i tend to not be able to think of anything to say. but conversation flowed naturally today, not just with her but everyone i spoke to. it felt real good.

But i didnt really get to speak to her much today because we worked at completely opposite registers. And now ive found out that shes not working the same shift as me next week. And this means if i dont do something soon things are gonna spin the way they did last year, i am going obsess over this girl for ages, forget about her, then as soon as she works with me again ill be back in the same spot! im in year 12, if we did go out i couldnt take her out much...but i still want it so badly.

i have learnt not to idealize new women i meet but i cant stop liking this girl i met before i started learning dating beliefs attitudes and such.

So, after all this time, do i just bite the bullet and go for it? Is it a thing worth doing if im in year 12 and shes in year 11? Am i overanalyzing past, present and future?

Am i just wasting my time obsessing over this one girl just because she is shy, cute, a little mysterious and has the best smile in the world (even though she has braces)? Her status has just built up in my mind to be ultimate girl, though i dont treat her like that.

Year 12 is a major factor if anyone has had a gf in year 12 before and had it work out please reply to this thread.

Thanks for reading and again i appreciate any replies. I will do my best to answer any of your threads if i can.

 

[CobraDamn]

Good luck man, I know how you feel...it's easy to go AFC around the chicks you like but it is BEST to go in "no caring"...that way you can be as real as possible around them....and they become more interested in you than vice-versa.

 

[Maxtro]

Today at work i dont know what it was but i felt i could talk to absolutely anybody about anything and not worry one bit. I could have asked out this girl that i have liked for a while now but i didnt because i felt i hadnt built any attraction.

You're still scared. You thinking you didn't build up any attraction so you didn't ask her out is an excuse.

You need to bite the bullet and get it over with. If you don't you may regret it for the rest of your life. Next time your with her do one of the fallowing; get her phone number and or make plans to do something with her or take her someplace after work. Get some icecream or something with her.

I have a long history of not taking action with women, do what I didn't and go for it.

 

[Jokerlsk]

You've got oneitis. You need to either next her, or go ahead, bite the bullet, and ask her out. The more you think about it, the more you're going to subconsciously back out of it. Don't do that. I overanalyze EVERYTHING, and it causes me to retaliate back into my AFC nature. Sometimes my mind gets the best of me, but I know how to manually switch gears now.

 

[HOT_CHILLI]

Guys, thanks so much for replying! i always appreciate and admire people who take the time to reply to someone's thread and to help a comrade out.

And you guys can bet ur asses that next time i see her, ill ask her out. Thanks for the support.