Am I wrong in thinking this? All advice/opinions welcome

[iqqi]

I wasn't talking about you KX. However thanks for the long thought out speech. Talk to the hand.

And Latinoman, don't get so uppity.

My comments are ALL strictly inside jokes between Cordie and I.

thanks. drive thru please.

 

[KontrollerX]

Well then you shouldn't of quoted me on the last page sweet cheeks.

And uh sorry my inside joke and mind reading detectors are still at the repair shop.

"Yeah but you had no idea at all what I meant"

Of course not.

As I said my detectors are still in the shop.

"I didn't call you names or attack your post. You just assumed something bad, why I don't know. Maybe it has something to do with your negative perceptions, causing you take a negative action. Resulting in further negativy because..."

Or maybe I was tailoring my response to your negative patterns over a long period of time?

Seriously we've come to know what to expect from iqqi on Sosuave and usually its not anything good.

"Then you went on a tirade, hijacking Cordie's thread into yet another anti-iqqi crusade, as if there aren't enough right this very minute."

And why would there be so many if you were not deserving of them?

Thank you.

You have proven my point that you deserve to have an assumption of negativity laid at your feet due to all of your past trolling.

 

[iqqi]

Well then you shouldn't of quoted me on the last page sweet cheeks.

And uh sorry my inside joke and mind reading detectors are still at the repair shop.

Yeah but you had no idea at all what I meant, I didn't call you names or attack your post. You just assumed something bad, why I don't know. Maybe it has something to do with your negative perceptions, causing you take a negative action. Resulting in further negativy because...

Then you went on a tirade, hijacking Cordie's thread into yet another anti-iqqi crusade, as if there aren't enough right this very minute.

My inside joke relates directly to your comment, so I quoted it. Cordie the boardie knows whats up.

 

[Latinoman]

Remember your reputation is based on how society views you!

False. My reputation is based on RESULTS. I don't care how society views me.

Ok, now that I'm done teasing you and your done gloating. I'm willing to bet dollars to donuts that he wasn't ready to move at that time and that he would have likely resented her if he moved at that point.

But by staying behind, dating another women, he realized how much he valued her and was that much more comfortable in his decision to move and is that much happier as a result.

But we can never be sure about that. But if you like, we can argue about it for 12 pages since you seem to like to argue. :rockon:

My point remains the same...my advice on the issue of her moving to California remained the same.

1- Move with her. So you two can stay together while she pursues her life goals.

or

2- Don't move with her and end the relationship...so she can pursue her life goals.

In essence, I provided advice to him consistent to my "Key to Success in LTR" points. See below for an excerpt of that particular thread.

Post by Latinoman

The most important thing in a relationship is respect. Once you command that respect, then it is a matter of having some comparability in the areas that truly matters. Some of these are (in not particular order):

1- sexual comparability (high or low libidos)
2- same goals toward having (or not having) children
3-comparability in religion (or lack of)
4-comparability in economics (expending vs. saving)
5-comparability in values and morals
6- Agreement on involving (or not) the in-laws in the relationship
7-Support of her realistic goals (education, etc.)
8- SIMILAR goals in other areas that can affect both life styles (e.g. health and fitness)

 

[Latinoman]

I wasn't talking about you KX. However thanks for the long thought out speech. Talk to the hand.

And Latinoman, don't get so uppity.

My comments are ALL strictly inside jokes between Cordie and I.

thanks. drive thru please.

"inside jokes" should be submitted via PM.

 

[iqqi]

"inside jokes" should be submitted via PM.

Dude, keep your shoulds and should nots to yourself. We are grown a$$ people on this forum.

I also have opinions of what posts should be PM's, but who am I to tell you what to do where. For instance, now you and I are having a discussion about absolutely nothing that has to do with this thread.

The day I stop making private and inside (and less than private) jokes, is the day I take myself too seriously... kind of like you do. Not going to happen. My comments were for Cordie, it has to do with this thread, and I don't really care what YOU think about it.

Drive thru please. <------(that is also a joke, less than private however. does anyone "get it"?)

 

[cordoncordon]

It's sunny and 75 here today......and tomorrow and the next and the next and infinity.

 

[cordoncordon]

Waitaminutewaitaminutewaitaminute...


the girl you were talking about at the start of this thread...


....you got back together with her when you moved out here?

Yep!

 

[cordoncordon]

False. My reputation is based on RESULTS. I don't care how society views me.



My point remains the same...my advice on the issue of her moving to California remained the same.

1- Move with her. So you two can stay together while she pursues her life goals.

or

2- Don't move with her and end the relationship...so she can pursue her life goals.

In essence, I provided advice to him consistent to my "Key to Success in LTR" points. See below for an excerpt of that particular thread.

You were right my man! Props to you!

 

[Latinoman]

The day I stop making private and inside (and less than private) jokes, is the day I take myself too seriously... kind of like you do.

Don't ASSUME...it makes and A_SS of U and ME. But more of U.

Are you a troll?

 

[iqqi]

Don't ASSUME...it makes and A_SS of U and ME. But more of U.

Are you a troll?

Are u a drunk?

I didn't assume anything. I concluded, after months of observation.

Drive thru please.

 

[Latinoman]

Are u a drunk?

I didn't not assume anything. I concluded, after months of observation.

Drive thru please.

You should know by now not to phuck with me. But then again...like every other woman...you will probably love that too.

 

[Latinoman]

You were right my man! Props to you!

I am glad things work out for you.