"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Am I Wierd?

phillyb

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Honestly, I think we are all weird, to an extent. That's what makes most people unique.

I have been in several relationships in the past. Recently,

however, I have had no interest in dating, or even the thought of

marriage. Alot of this has to do with being in my last semester

of college: Money is tight, I'm really concentrating on finishing

strong and finding employment these last couple of months of

school. I have read alot in my free time about marriage.....mostly

why not to get married.

Dont get me wrong, I think marriage is great, and at some point if I'm absolutly

sure Ive met the one, there is a chance that I might get married.

But right now, I just want to establish myself financially and sport

f-ck until that time comes.

Right now though, I feel just a bit detached from women, and

the world in general. I don't go out, (money mostly) but for other

reasons too. My female roomate said she thought I was A-sexual

WTF---the way I see it I just don't have interest in women right

now. Sure I would love to get some tail every weekend, but I dont

think that is feasible for me ......in my current situation. Also I find

myself looking down on women right now.......it just seems they

all think the world revolves around them(the hot ones at least),

and that their feet should be kissed, and theyre entitled to every

thing because they have a v-gina. I hope this passes soon, because

I know they are all not bad.

Have any of you ever felt this way before? WTF is my problem?





thanx,
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten

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you are going thru a "me" phase.

its ok to roll with it, but dont turn all bitter.
 
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