"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Am i trippin or is this reason for concern

Colinski282

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I get a Duplicate Text from my girl this morning simply saying Are You Up Yet?

A duplicate text only comes up when it was forwarded to more than one person. Makes me kinda wonder, I asked why was my text a duplicate and she said Im not sure. :cool:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flippinfreak

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It's nothing, I would text 5 people at a time in the morning to ask them when they are going for coffee.
 

T Money

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that's happened to me dude. Maybe she thought she didn't hit the send button, or accidentally hit it again. Ask to see her cell phone and just play with it a little bit (sercretly finding the outbox to text messages). Why would she text two guys to meet at the same time/morning? Don't worry.
 

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If she press send twice it woulda sent to me twice.
Shes at school and she wasnt asking to meet up... she was asking two people if they were awake? wtf
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Colinski282

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I guess your right i just been real stressed lately. Been arguing alot with her, called her while i was at work and she was on the other line and now this. I was trying to put two and two together.
 
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